HA guys do any of U have or had a LTR with T-gurl

[Reddman]

What ab out now or ever or at least openly date T gurls socially.Curious bout this one. I've practically married to mine. I often feel by and large I'm in the minority when it comes to this status. Could the majority of you guys be hobbyist (as RealGirl for terms it :D ) or fantansy seekers???

[Thuggish_Intellect]

I just have higher standards. Yes, I have thuggish tendencies but I also consider myself to be highly intelligent, hence the screen name. I will not settle for just anything. Wether it be transsexual or genetic woman.

I'll just say I haven't found the right transsexual woman for me. I don't do the escort thing. I don't knock it if the girl does it for a living because I know that's probablly how she supports herself.

I'd have a lot of house cleaning to do before I decide to settle down long term with a transsexual. I know eventually that's what i'd like and maybe when I find that right one my decision will be that much easier but at this time in my life i'm trully convinced that the transsexuals i'm interested in getting to know more in depth (i.e. the girls with the astonishing looks and brains to match) don't date on principle or virtue.

On a related note, you being in NY, assumably have a more receptive climate there as far as dating is concerned. People's professions have to be taken into account wether it be, military, religous, entertainment, legal and how that decision to settle down seriously would affect/hinder said careers in most areas outside of NYC or major metropolitan areas such as LA, Chi, or DC.

In NYC i'd be just another number but in Lancaster, PA or Danville, VA i'd be officer Thomas, or Reverend Smith, or Dr. O' Malley, or Marty Lieberman attorney at law...you get my drift?

The rise to affluency by most transsexuals (i.e Allanah, Gia, and others) and the rise of home computing is not incidental. Most patrons of these woman now have the opportunity to live out a lifetime of fettish and fantasy via the web, that they'd never have had 10, 15, & 20 years ago without the advent of computers.

So for most cats, probablly the majority, the goal isn't on having and establishing a long term relationship with these women. Most if not the vast majority have the opportunity to live out double, alternative lives online. They get to create new names for themselves (i.e. screen names), alternate personalities (i.e. outcast can become adonis's), and establish relationships that they wouldn't dare do in there personal & public lives. An Alabama, god fearing father of 2, online can become "a submissive sissy boy ready to be topped by dominant shemale" at the click of a profile or chat room.

It's the lure of the untouchable. I think if this (attraction to transsexuals) were to become socially acceptable, it wouldn't provide the rush that some of these cats get and so accordingly wouldn't be persued or "desired" as much.

So for myself, i'm still waiting for the "right" girl to establish that wanted relationship with. As for others, I don't think a "real" relationship is the M.O, I think it's more fettish....However I could be wrong, but I don't thinks so...lol

[roy404]

I was legally married to a post-op-twice. I have lived with many TS women since 68 and known 100's more. I am now in a LTR with a TS and we have lived together for 4 years. She is cool and treally a great lady. In fact she see's no reason why I should not go to Allanah's party.

Women are women. People are peolpe. Only a few of my friends know about her "Sex" and they know me so they totally accept her.

You get the tpye of person you seek and deserve. Heck if I was 25 years younger I would be courting Allanah. I consider her one of the hottest most intelligent LADIES I have ever known. And for me that says a lot.

[Reddman]

Bump!!!

[Thuggish_Intellect]

Does any of your girls friends want hook ups with your boys? Or are most of your friends strictly "No Homo" about the ts thing?

[mBomb]

Last 4 relationships I've had were with ts's.. one you guys probably jo'ed to before too. Problem is, minute the girls hit the hormones the ego skyrockets and the moodswings come.

It's really, really hard to hold a relationship with someone transgendered.

[Reddman]

Nope. All my friends are either solidly straight , gay or bi.. Only one gay friend has confided, sought and found experiences with both a TS and a GG. He's still into guys but he got the curiosity factor out of his system. only two of my straight friends have ever loosed to the ideal of kickin' it with a pre op TS but they only expressed when sauced and always "nah nah" the ideal .

[Reddman]

Nope. All my friends are either solidly straight , gay or bi.. Only one gay friend has confided, sought and found experiences with both a TS and a GG. He's still into guys but he got the curiosity factor out of his system. only two of my straight friends have ever loosed to the ideal of kickin' it with a pre op TS but they only expressed when sauced and always "nah nah" the ideal .


Opps, i posted my reply in the wrong subject

[Reddman]

Does any of your girls friends want hook ups with your boys? Or are most of your friends strictly "No Homo" about the ts thing?



Ok I'm in the right thread. Damn i gotta leave them trees alone :lol:



Nope. All my friends are either solidly straight , gay or bi.. Only one gay friend has confided, sought and found experiences with both a TS and a GG. He's still into guys but he got the curiosity factor out of his system. only two of my straight friends have ever loosed to the ideal of kickin' it with a pre op TS but they only expressed when sauced and always "nah nah" the ideal

[d]

lol @ "No Homo".
I don't think most guys can be open about liking shemales because its not too accepted socially. the guys i hang with, if they do get down they hide it very well

[Thuggish_Intellect]

I'm new to the game and think it'd be cool to hang out with persons who shared similar interest as me, especailly being a black/latino guy (you know the stereotypes we hear coming up that shuns any homo tendencies) at this coming party.

[Hugh Jarrod]

I had a brief relationship with one but she now chases sugardaddies. :(

[RangeHova]

I've had a few relationships with T-girls. I'd say 2 of my most serious relationships were with T-girls. I think more guys who are sexually/physically attracted to them would go further were it not for society. Even with myself, I have tended to keep my relationships with them somewhat segreated from the rest of my life. But were I to take it to a higher level (marriage or something as permanent) I would be fully open.

But bigger than the societal is how most men approach Ts. Most guys see them as sexual objects and treat them as such, never really taking time to get to know them. I think if more of us got it the hearts and minds of these women the whole sexual thing wouldn't be as big. Hell, it may even increase.

Some of the coolest, sweetest, gentlest, most caring, and loving people that I have known in my life have been TS women.

[Thuggish_Intellect]

I can agree with you that most guys approach them totally wrong but...

Most men feed off the images they recieve.

And the honest reality is that the majority of the ladies make livings off of sex...so

What can you do?

Everyone can't be freebies...

Everyone can't be a trick...

It's a fine line they walk

[sexyredman]

Last 4 relationships I've had were with ts's.. one you guys probably jo'ed to before too. Problem is, minute the girls hit the hormones the ego skyrockets and the moodswings come.

It's really, really hard to hold a relationship with someone transgendered.

Amen to this. I just got out of a 3 year relationship with a stage performer going through transition. Lot of sacrifices to make and a lot of handholding and ego-stroking that I didn't account for when we first started, and she became preoccupied with body alterations every other month. Next girl will have to be more secure in her looks and more used to day to day activities besides looking good for the stage.

[filyapanties4me]

What ab out now or ever or at least openly date T gurls socially.Curious bout this one. I've practically married to mine. I often feel by and large I'm in the minority when it comes to this status. Could the majority of you guys be hobbyist (as RealGirl for terms it :D ) or fantansy seekers???MAN... FIND ME AN ALLANAH OR RAQUEL, COSMO, SHEEBA... THE LIST GOES ON, AND I'LL SETTLE. ONLY PROBLEM IS (IN GENERAL) BEING RESPECTED AS A HARD WORKING MAN AND NOT A TRICK. I'M A GENUINE TS ADMIRER BECAUSE I'M SINCERE. IT'S HARD TO COME ACROSS A TOP NOTCH TS WITHOUT HAVING LOT'S OF MONEY... IT SHOULDN'T BE THAT WAY. I'M NOT BROKE BUT I REFUSE TO SPEND ON SHORT TERM SATISFACTION WHEN I COULD HAVE A DYNOMITE LONG TERM ROMANCE. GOOD TOPIC!

[Dengoza]

I had two short but sweet relationships with TS. I feel I could settle down with the right girl. But I admit its not been easy to find the right person.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

What ab out now or ever or at least openly date T gurls socially.Curious bout this one. I've practically married to mine. I often feel by and large I'm in the minority when it comes to this status. Could the majority of you guys be hobbyist (as RealGirl for terms it :D ) or fantansy seekers???

Tgirls are women, they go through enough trials & tribulations without having us specify them into a unique category of woman but nontheless............

Personally I feel it's impossible to have an LTR with "certain" tgirls.......
I'll try to explain so those reading can understand me

I have come to grips with the reality that there are tgirls that are very sheltered, and then there are tgirls that are always out & about and are not sheltered. The "sheltered" tgirl [in my opinion] has more to offer the guy looking for an LTR. The "not sheltered" tgirl has less due to influences from friends they are always with, drugs, alcohol, etc.

Many a night have I been out partying and one of my buds walks up to me with a genius plan of making a tgirl from scratch (lol) to avoid the bullshit that often comes with a "not sheltered" tgirl.

I've been romantically linked to a few tgirls in my past, all very nice girls, but they were all "not sheltered" and they all were going through some rough shit way beyond my level of understanding.

In all fairness no tgirl I have ever spent quality time with has had an issue more devastating than any Ggirl I've been with; they are just as nuts if you put them in the sheltered/non-sheltered categories [wait didn't I say not to categorize earlier? lol]






But bigger than the societal is how most men approach Ts. Most guys see them as sexual objects and treat them as such, never really taking time to get to know them. I think if more of us got it the hearts and minds of these women the whole sexual thing wouldn't be as big. Hell, it may even increase.


I quoted you on this hova because it was a good statement even though I don't completely agree with it. Once again in my opinion if you take the sex drive of a male and the woman's ease of obtaining sex simply by donning the proper apparel and/or having enough sex appeal you have a very unique sexual woman. You top that off with a weekly hormone shot and you quite possibly have the ultimate woman with an occasional 30 minute mental menstrual cycle (lol). I have yet to meet a tgirl that isn't as much if not more than a freak than I am and does not treat a man they desire as a sex object..................

[Dengoza]

But I think these girls that are out in the public or pubic eye are capable, but I would imagine they need to "shelter" themselves like you say once they find a good man.

I do think that as hard as devastating issues can be for GGs, Tgirls are always going to have a little tougher time with their issues because of the lack of any built in support system in the mainstream society. Thats a fact, as I see it

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

But I think these girls that are out in the public or pubic eye are capable, but I would imagine they need to "shelter" themselves like you say once they find a good man.

I do think that as hard as devastating issues can be for GGs, Tgirls are always going to have a little tougher time with their issues because of the lack of any built in support system in the mainstream society. Thats a fact, as I see it

It depends on the girl
take the 4 mentioned by filya abpve............ they can walk down the street without detection if they wanted, let's face it not every tgirl can do that

And tgirls NEVER have to go through that time of the month or menopause......... I'm sure they have tons of shit they go through but you have to admit, for most guys that have been with both, having a women that doesn't ask you to go to the store and pick up some tampons or says "maybe you should hang out with the fellas for a few days" has to be a plus, lol

[dabaldone]

I've been in 2 LTR with TS women. The first one was abot 8 years ago. The last one of 3 yrs jut ended. I prefer TS women, but find it hard to meet a TS socially. It's much more than just a sexual attraction.

[Deepdarkfucker]

Bump

[mwilliams001us]

Yes, I am currently married to a wonderful woman who happens to be a post-op TS. We have been together for 7 years.

When I was single I dated several t-girls some as flings and other a longterm, 6 months or more.