My husband cheated on me with TS/TV

[Upsetwife]

I'm so upset to see my husband has commented on this post:

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?99128-Ana888-and-ts-Amandada

and admitted he's cheated on me with ts. I have nothing against people doing these things and getting paid for it after all it's their bodies to do with what they like but when a man who claims he loves his wife and has regular sex (so can't say it's a lack of sex in the relationship) goes and pays for sex it ruins lives. It would be hard enough to deal with just knowing it's other females he's been cheating with but to find out he's been with other men (tv's are still men as they still have a dick!!!) And really enjoyed it!! I dont know how to deal with this :-( I can not compete with another man

[slave2u]

And really enjoyed it!! I dont know how to deal with this :-( I can not compete with another man

perhaps invest in a strap on and roger him senseless?

[Upsetwife]

perhaps invest in a strap on and roger him senseless?
If he wanted to be rogered as you put it he should married a guy

[hugeadmirer]

If this is all genuine that was pretty insensitive slave2u


perhaps invest in a strap on and roger him senseless?

[Upsetwife]

If this is all genuine that was pretty insensitive slave2u

I can assure you this is genuine, this unfortunately is my life I'm dealing with and I know that no one on here really wants me here ranting but it's my only outlet for how I'm feeling as I can't talk to anyone about it
My heart is completely broken

[Upsetwife]

I need someone to please explain to me why a seemingly heterosexual guy who is married and loves his wife, which I do believe he does, would sleep with a ts? What is the attraction? I don't want to offend anyone so please accept my apology if I have but if anyone is in the same situation is happily married but sleeping with ts escort please tell me why, maybe then I will understand better why he's done it and will probably do it again. I know he has slept with female escorts too and although I hate it and font understand what he gets from them that's he's not getting from me I can't understand why ts' as when he talks about them he says they are nothing but freaks (his words not mine) and they should decide if they want to be male or female and it's wrong that they choose to be both.
Please explain to me someone x

[Laphroaig]

I need someone to please explain to me why a seemingly heterosexual guy who is married and loves his wife, which I do believe he does, would sleep with a ts? What is the attraction? I don't want to offend anyone so please accept my apology if I have but if anyone is in the same situation is happily married but sleeping with ts escort please tell me why, maybe then I will understand better why he's done it and will probably do it again. I know he has slept with female escorts too and although I hate it and font understand what he gets from them that's he's not getting from me I can't understand why ts' as when he talks about them he says they are nothing but freaks (his words not mine) and they should decide if they want to be male or female and it's wrong that they choose to be both.
Please explain to me someone x

Dozens of threads attempting to explain this. Here's just a handful.

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?105316-Is-it-gay-to-be-attracted-intimate-with-Trannies

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?84776-Why-are-so-many-STR8-men-attracted-to-preop-TS

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?82520-Men-who-are-attracted-to-transgendered-women-Straight-bi-gay

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?493-Why-or-how-did-you-become-attracted-to-Shemales

[Upsetwife]

Dozens of threads attempting to explain this. Here's just a handful.

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?105316-Is-it-gay-to-be-attracted-intimate-with-Trannies

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?84776-Why-are-so-many-STR8-men-attracted-to-preop-TS

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?82520-Men-who-are-attracted-to-transgendered-women-Straight-bi-gay

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?493-Why-or-how-did-you-become-attracted-to-Shemales

Thank you but was hoping to get someone's personal experience of it to try and help me undetstand

[polarfox67]

Thank you but was hoping to get someone's personal experience of it to try and help me undetstand

Well, to begin with, can I suggest that you start your own thread on the subject, ideally in the General Forum and stop sabotaging a number of different threads in this Review section - I think you might find that approach both more respectful of those who use these boards and also more productive in terms of what you are trying to discover and understand.

[Laphroaig]

Thank you but was hoping to get someone's personal experience of it to try and help me undetstand

There's only one person you're going to get that answer from. Think you already know this, but don't want to, or aren't ready to face him yet.

[DollyJEscort]

I need someone to please explain to me why a seemingly heterosexual guy who is married and loves his wife, which I do believe he does, would sleep with a ts? What is the attraction? I don't want to offend anyone so please accept my apology if I have but if anyone is in the same situation is happily married but sleeping with ts escort please tell me why, maybe then I will understand better why he's done it and will probably do it again. I know he has slept with female escorts too and although I hate it and font understand what he gets from them that's he's not getting from me I can't understand why ts' as when he talks about them he says they are nothing but freaks (his words not mine) and they should decide if they want to be male or female and it's wrong that they choose to be both.
Please explain to me someone x

I read your original post on here the other day I actually felt sorry for you, as one of the escorts myself I know just how many married men we see each week and if its any consolation it really isn’t just your husband with this desire/hunger/fetish for a chick with a dick, there are thousands of them that pay us for this no strings attached taboo fun.
However much sympathy I feel for u I have to say unless you’re going to confront him then what on earth is the fucking point in coming here - AN ESCORT REVIEW site badmouthing transexuals because you cannot bring yourself to just asking your husband why hes been cheating on you? Virtually pointless I don’t even beleive you’re real now tbh I think your a wind up as I don’t know any woman in my life who would instead of confronting said husband would instead set up a profile on the same site hes used to rant about it? I smell bullshit. If you are real I suggest you GO AND TALK to your husband as theres fuck all you’re going to get from here, especially when questioning the guys intentions of paying to fuck girls like me. As you stated yourself if he wanted to fuck a “guy” be that a rentboy or ts escort (as Im sure u would include in being a guy) then he shouldn’t have married you. But that’s something only he can answer you not us!

[essex1]

I need someone to please explain to me why a seemingly heterosexual guy who is married and loves his wife, which I do believe he does, would sleep with a ts? What is the attraction? I don't want to offend anyone so please accept my apology if I have but if anyone is in the same situation is happily married but sleeping with ts escort please tell me why, maybe then I will understand better why he's done it and will probably do it again. I know he has slept with female escorts too and although I hate it and font understand what he gets from them that's he's not getting from me I can't understand why ts' as when he talks about them he says they are nothing but freaks (his words not mine) and they should decide if they want to be male or female and it's wrong that they choose to be both.
Please explain to me someone x

It must be a shocking way to find out that you dont fulfill his sexual needs, however if you want to continue the relationship you are going to need to talk to your husband and find out if there is a possible compromise. I am guessing he is an older guy and this is not a unique situation, for as we get to a certain age the urge to experiment sexually is common. Some men take to swinging or dogging to watch their wives have sex for example. It certainly doesnt mean he is gay or that he doesnt love you as his wife, he's simply experimenting sexually. As another posted here some couples find alternatives and use strapons, or some couples (as in my relationship) experiment with transgenders together. In fact we often talk about our 3some with a beautiful ladyboy in Thailand. So my advice would be dont take it personally, have a few drinks and both discuss your sexual needs...Together!

[jameshargreaves]

I read your original post on here the other day I actually felt sorry for you, as one of the escorts myself I know just how many married men we see each week and if its any consolation it really isn’t just your husband with this desire/hunger/fetish for a chick with a dick, there are thousands of them that pay us for this no strings attached taboo fun.
However much sympathy I feel for u I have to say unless you’re going to confront him then what on earth is the fucking point in coming here - AN ESCORT REVIEW site badmouthing transexuals because you cannot bring yourself to just asking your husband why hes been cheating on you? Virtually pointless I don’t even beleive you’re real now tbh I think your a wind up as I don’t know any woman in my life who would instead of confronting said husband would instead set up a profile on the same site hes used to rant about it? I smell bullshit. If you are real I suggest you GO AND TALK to your husband as theres fuck all you’re going to get from here, especially when questioning the guys intentions of paying to fuck girls like me. As you stated yourself if he wanted to fuck a “guy” be that a rentboy or ts escort (as Im sure u would include in being a guy) then he shouldn’t have married you. But that’s something only he can answer you not us!

Wow. What a great post Dolly. Good on you girl. One smart chick.

[hugeadmirer]

Wise words. Finding out the truth might actually bring you much closer together


It must be a shocking way to find out that you dont fulfill his sexual needs, however if you want to continue the relationship you are going to need to talk to your husband and find out if there is a possible compromise. I am guessing he is an older guy and this is not a unique situation, for as we get to a certain age the urge to experiment sexually is common. Some men take to swinging or dogging to watch their wives have sex for example. It certainly doesnt mean he is gay or that he doesnt love you as his wife, he's simply experimenting sexually. As another posted here some couples find alternatives and use strapons, or some couples (as in my relationship) experiment with transgenders together. In fact we often talk about our 3some with a beautiful ladyboy in Thailand. So my advice would be dont take it personally, have a few drinks and both discuss your sexual needs...Together!

[Upsetwife]

I read your original post on here the other day I actually felt sorry for you, as one of the escorts myself I know just how many married men we see each week and if its any consolation it really isn’t just your husband with this desire/hunger/fetish for a chick with a dick, there are thousands of them that pay us for this no strings attached taboo fun.
However much sympathy I feel for u I have to say unless you’re going to confront him then what on earth is the fucking point in coming here - AN ESCORT REVIEW site badmouthing transexuals because you cannot bring yourself to just asking your husband why hes been cheating on you? Virtually pointless I don’t even beleive you’re real now tbh I think your a wind up as I don’t know any woman in my life who would instead of confronting said husband would instead set up a profile on the same site hes used to rant about it? I smell bullshit. If you are real I suggest you GO AND TALK to your husband as theres fuck all you’re going to get from here, especially when questioning the guys intentions of paying to fuck girls like me. As you stated yourself if he wanted to fuck a “guy” be that a rentboy or ts escort (as Im sure u would include in being a guy) then he shouldn’t have married you. But that’s something only he can answer you not us!
To start with I'm not looking for yours or anyone else's sympathy, I'm 100% real and this is my life I'm dealing with and have never had yo deal with anything like this before so have no idea what or why I'm doing this, life doesn't come with a handbook explaining what to do in devastating situations, if it did I wouldn't be here.
Secondly I have not bad mouthed anyone!!! I have nothing against anyone doing what they want to, my son has come out as gay and I'm happy if he is. Just because I don't understand something doesn't make it wrong.
The only reason I think I actually commented on here in the first place as deep down I think I was hoping my husband may see this and confess everything to me and apologise and maybe we could get through this as I took my marriage vows seriously and deeply love him.
Just because you don't know any woman that would do this doesn't mean it's BULLSHIT.
I have actually had loads of response in messages from people actually trying to explain and help me and it has helped me greatly as I've had people to talk to about thus as I can't speak to friends and family about this, he's kept it from everyone so it's not my place to tell anyone what he's been doing as he must be embarrassed about it to hide it.
So again thank you for your comment but it's not needed

[Upsetwife]

It must be a shocking way to find out that you dont fulfill his sexual needs, however if you want to continue the relationship you are going to need to talk to your husband and find out if there is a possible compromise. I am guessing he is an older guy and this is not a unique situation, for as we get to a certain age the urge to experiment sexually is common. Some men take to swinging or dogging to watch their wives have sex for example. It certainly doesnt mean he is gay or that he doesnt love you as his wife, he's simply experimenting sexually. As another posted here some couples find alternatives and use strapons, or some couples (as in my relationship) experiment with transgenders together. In fact we often talk about our 3some with a beautiful ladyboy in Thailand. So my advice would be dont take it personally, have a few drinks and both discuss your sexual needs...Together!
Thank you for your comment
He is in fact younger than me and I do believe he still loves me as shows it all the time
I have asked him plenty of times if I'm enough for him and if there is anything he wants to try as I'm very open minded about sex between a husband and wife and if anything I'm more experimental and adventurous in the bedroom than he is and certainly have a higher sex drive so I can't see how I am not fulfilling his needs sexually

[harry24844722]

I love my wife and she gives me much pleasure in life and in bed but I have desires to fulfill and this 'hobby' of mine seeing TS girls or GG escorts just gives me what I need and then I go home to her every night. We are only here once and life is too short to not try everything at least once. I do not want or seek a relationship with another girl or TS girl outside of my marriage. The only other option would be to leave my wife and search for a new partner TS or otherwise and I am sure she does not want that. If she found out I would discuss it with her and give her the choice of splitting up or tolerating this hobby for as long as my desires are there. I don't see it lasting much longer as it is starting to get less thrilling as time goes on. Just a phase in my case (that's lasted 19 years lol)

[Upsetwife]

I love my wife and she gives me much pleasure in life and in bed but I have desires to fulfill and this 'hobby' of mine seeing TS girls or GG escorts just gives me what I need and then I go home to her every night. We are only here once and life is too short to not try everything at least once. I do not want or seek a relationship with another girl or TS girl outside of my marriage. The only other option would be to leave my wife and search for a new partner TS or otherwise and I am sure she does not want that. If she found out I would discuss it with her and give her the choice of splitting up or tolerating this hobby for as long as my desires are there. I don't see it lasting much longer as it is starting to get less thrilling as time goes on. Just a phase in my case (that's lasted 19 years lol)

Would you feel the same if you found out your wife was seeing escorts behind your back and what woukd be your response if she gave you the option to either split up or tolerate her HOBBY? This is question all you married men should ask yourself if you truly do love your wife.
I am deeply in love with my husband and couldn't even bring myself to look at another person in a sexual way

[harry24844722]

I have had a long term relationship in the past where we shared our bed with an escort and I think it lengthened the relationship and enhanced it. I'm not promoting any lifestyle and am not a hypocrite so if I discovered my wife seeing others I would look no further than myself that something was not quite right in the relationship and if I wanted to seek to fix it. That's just my view and definately not yours. Just to say if both partners were 100% happy would they stray? You can attempt to fill the gaps or move on. Paying an escort removes any risk of emotional attachments and is the least harmful way of fixing these longings. Again I'm not preaching just saying how I feel.

[Upsetwife]

I have had a long term relationship in the past where we shared our bed with an escort and I think it lengthened the relationship and enhanced it. I'm not promoting any lifestyle and am not a hypocrite so if I discovered my wife seeing others I would look no further than myself that something was not quite right in the relationship and if I wanted to seek to fix it. That's just my view and definately not yours. Just to say if both partners were 100% happy would they stray? You can attempt to fill the gaps or move on. Paying an escort removes any risk of emotional attachments and is the least harmful way of fixing these longings. Again I'm not preaching just saying how I feel.

I appreciate your honesty and I guess my husband can not be 100 % happy then, I just wish he would tell me he's not as I've asked him so many times
I've offered to buy a strap on and try that but he is dead against it saying he could not put anything in his arse bigger than my finger which is really frustrating now I know he's actually had a cock in his arse
I can't offer him any more than I have as I don't have the equipment for that and if he's really that in need of a cock ( which it doesn't seem like he's that gagging for it as in 3 years he's only done it 3 times) that he would just leave me even tho I would be heart broken it would mean he can do what he wants without hurting me more and I can get over him in time

[Upsetwife]

I have had a long term relationship in the past where we shared our bed with an escort and I think it lengthened the relationship and enhanced it. I'm not promoting any lifestyle and am not a hypocrite so if I discovered my wife seeing others I would look no further than myself that something was not quite right in the relationship and if I wanted to seek to fix it. That's just my view and definately not yours. Just to say if both partners were 100% happy would they stray? You can attempt to fill the gaps or move on. Paying an escort removes any risk of emotional attachments and is the least harmful way of fixing these longings. Again I'm not preaching just saying how I feel.

And as for being a hypocrite I'm not 1 either and I have never cheated in any of my relationships. I was married previously for 17 years and we parted good friends, neither of us cheated once

[john1990]

This is getting a bit tiresome now. This is nothing to do with the original topic. Please create a new thread if you want to discuss the matter further and refrain from going off topic in all the threads you're replying to.

[polarfox67]

This is getting a bit tiresome now. This is nothing to do with the original topic. Please create a new thread if you want to discuss the matter further and refrain from going off topic in all the threads you're replying to.

:iagree:

[Upsetwife]

This is getting a bit tiresome now. This is nothing to do with the original topic. Please create a new thread if you want to discuss the matter further and refrain from going off topic in all the threads you're replying to.

Sorry you feel like this but I could say to you if you don't like reading it go to another thread but I won't cause I'm mot rude like that
My husband happened to of commented on this thread and I commented as I see it, it's just carried on so please if you don't like anything I've written don't read it

[john1990]

Sorry you feel like this but I could say to you if you don't like reading it go to another thread but I won't cause I'm mot rude like that
My husband happened to of commented on this thread and I commented as I see it, it's just carried on so please if you don't like anything I've written don't read it

Yes but your husband was on the topic of the thread so that's fine. That's how forums work, you have a subject or a topic matter and you keep roughly to that. Having several "mothers meetings" in multiple threads irrelevant to the original topic is not the idea of a forum.

Look I've strayed off the topic matter. But that's only because I'm trying to help you understand that if want any more meaningful responses then you need to create your own thread and not hijack others.

[Laphroaig]

Would you feel the same if you found out your wife was seeing escorts behind your back and what woukd be your response if she gave you the option to either split up or tolerate her HOBBY? This is question all you married men should ask yourself if you truly do love your wife.
I am deeply in love with my husband and couldn't even bring myself to look at another person in a sexual way

4 points:

1. Love, lust and sex can be separated.
2. There were only 9 people (8 if you remove me. I'm pretty certain it's not nobby, so down to 7.) who have contributed to this thread before you commented. If one of those 7 really is your husband and he hasn't realised he's being talked about yet, then he's either thick as 2 short planks or you've got it wrong. How do you actually know it's him?
3. Just tell him your suspicions, discuss it like adults, and either work it out or get a divorce.
4. Being on here isn't going to give you the answers.

[Upsetwife]

4 points:

1. Love, lust and sex can be separated.
2. There were only 9 people (8 if you remove me. I'm pretty certain it's not nobby, so down to 7.) who have contributed to this thread before you commented. If one of those 7 really is your husband and he hasn't realised he's being talked about yet, then he's either thick as 2 short planks or you've got it wrong. How do you actually know it's him?
3. Just tell him your suspicions, discuss it like adults, and either work it out or get a divorce.
4. Being on here isn't going to give you the answers.

Point 1
You may be able to desperate love list and sex but I got married and took my view seriously
Point 2
He is on here and the only reason he hasn't commented as he hasn't been on here since he commented
Point 3
If I could do that I wouldn't be here in the first place
Point 4
I have had dozens of messages from people actually offering me help in understand why he did this and it has helped me a lot
You may not like what I have done but frankly it's my life that I'm dealing with and I'm doing it as best I can in the circumstances. I may not be dealing with it the way you or others would and you may not understand why I'm doing this, I don't really understand it myself but hey I don't tell anyone else what they do is wrong so please have a bit more compassion for women like me (of which I'm sure there are hundreds if not thousands) who don't understand this fetish but are trying to and wanting to save their marriage

[Upsetwife]

Yes but your husband was on the topic of the thread so that's fine. That's how forums work, you have a subject or a topic matter and you keep roughly to that. Having several "mothers meetings" in multiple threads irrelevant to the original topic is not the idea of a forum.

Look I've strayed off the topic matter. But that's only because I'm trying to help you understand that if want any more meaningful responses then you need to create your own thread and not hijack others.

If I did that then if my husband does come back on here he won't see them plus I have no idea how to start a new thread

[Upsetwife]

4 points:

1. Love, lust and sex can be separated.
2. There were only 9 people (8 if you remove me. I'm pretty certain it's not nobby, so down to 7.) who have contributed to this thread before you commented. If one of those 7 really is your husband and he hasn't realised he's being talked about yet, then he's either thick as 2 short planks or you've got it wrong. How do you actually know it's him?
3. Just tell him your suspicions, discuss it like adults, and either work it out or get a divorce.
4. Being on here isn't going to give you the answers.

I also know it's him cause I logged on with his username and the password he has stored in his notes on his phone and hey Presto!!! That's how I first read all the comments he wrote. I then made my own account up once I had got past the screaming hysterically and sobbing my heart out

[Laphroaig]

Point 1
You may be able to desperate love list and sex but I got married and took my view seriously
Point 2
He is on here and the only reason he hasn't commented as he hasn't been on here since he commented
Point 3
If I could do that I wouldn't be here in the first place
Point 4
I have had dozens of messages from people actually offering me help in understand why he did this and it has helped me a lot
You may not like what I have done but frankly it's my life that I'm dealing with and I'm doing it as best I can in the circumstances. I may not be dealing with it the way you or others would and you may not understand why I'm doing this, I don't really understand it myself but hey I don't tell anyone else what they do is wrong so please have a bit more compassion for women like me (of which I'm sure there are hundreds if not thousands) who don't understand this fetish but are trying to and wanting to save their marriage

You've just lost any sympathy I had for you. Assuming this whole thing isn't just bullshit trolling, which is looking more and more likely, then grow up and talk to him about it. Seems like it's communication that's the problem in your marriage...

[rodinuk]

4 points:
2. There were only 9 people (8 if you remove me. I'm pretty certain it's not nobby, so down to 7.) who have contributed to this thread before you commented. If one of those 7 really is your husband and he hasn't realised he's being talked about yet, then he's either thick as 2 short planks or you've got it wrong. How do you actually know it's him?



If you cross-reference it with the other thread where she says ' another one my husband commented on ...' then examine the post histories of the contenders then it will give you the result.

He has been directed towards this thread so he should know if he ever returns.

[Torris]

I'm so upset to see my husband has commented on this post:

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?99128-Ana888-and-ts-Amandada

and admitted he's cheated on me with ts. I have nothing against people doing these things and getting paid for it after all it's their bodies to do with what they like but when a man who claims he loves his wife and has regular sex (so can't say it's a lack of sex in the relationship) goes and pays for sex it ruins lives. It would be hard enough to deal with just knowing it's other females he's been cheating with but to find out he's been with other men (tv's are still men as they still have a dick!!!) And really enjoyed it!! I dont know how to deal with this :-( I can not compete with another man

Do you do anal? Maybe you should start taking it in the back door

[Upsetwife]

You've just lost any sympathy I had for you. Assuming this whole thing isn't just bullshit trolling, which is looking more and more likely, then grow up and talk to him about it. Seems like it's communication that's the problem in your marriage...

I wasn't looking for anyone's sympathy!!

[Upsetwife]

Do you do anal? Maybe you should start taking it in the back door

I was the one who introduced him yo anal

[bruce_willy]

I was the one who introduced him yo anal

What's "yo anal"?

[gaiseric]

A typo

[bruce_willy]

A typo

Ah that's a shame. I was hoping it would be a new perversion I could explore.

[iamneelix]

Troll detected.

[GroobySteven]

LOL.

Troll alert.

Someone jacking off while pretending to be his wife.

[Upsetwife]

LOL.

Troll alert.

Someone jacking off while pretending to be his wife.

Excuse me but this is his WIFE!!!! And no I'm no troll
If you don't like what I've written it's simple
FUCK OFF and go bother someone else like some dirty perverted wanker as they are 1000's on here including my husband
And yes yo was meant to be to

[Upsetwife]

I have actually come to realise 1 of the attraction you men have to fucking a ts escort
May have the body of a woman (except the fact they still have a cock) but they still have the brain of a man which means they can fuck and be arrogant arseholes together

At the end of the day it's just a dude in a dress with implants
Those that say it's not gay are just kidding themselves or too embarrassed to admit the truth

[Laphroaig]

I have actually come to realise 1 of the attraction you men have to fucking a ts escort
May have the body of a woman (except the fact they still have a cock) but they still have the brain of a man which means they can fuck and be arrogant arseholes together

At the end of the day it's just a dude in a dress with implants
Those that say it's not gay are just kidding themselves or too embarrassed to admit the truth

"I have actually come to realise" that you're nothing more than a nasty little troll....

Looks like I wasn't the first either...:dead:


Excuse me but this is his WIFE!!!! And no I'm no troll
If you don't like what I've written it's simple
FUCK OFF and go bother someone else like some dirty perverted wanker as they are 1000's on here including my husband
And yes yo was meant to be to

Congratulations on telling the forum owner to fuck off...:dead:

[mikelangelo1]

i dont know if its any comforting to u, but i assure u, that there are thousands of married men who have at least once made sex with a tgirl...it doesnt mean that he does not love u, he just satisfies some fantasies of him...its up to u if u can deal with it, maybe if u talk each other sincerely and enrich your common sexual life with some extra toys in bed, he may stop searching around and u may like it too.

[tsadriana]

I haven`t been active on this site in ages but i couldn`t help myself not to comment on this...Lady or troll or whatever you are ,no one gives a fuck that you call us freaks men with tits or we have women body and male brain no one gives a fuck what you think,but let me tell one thing:
If a man sleeps with a transwoman there can be only one issue and thats you lady but you wont gonna like what im gonna say:
The reason why your husband has slept with a transwoman is because your not up to much as a woman in bed ,if you were he wouldn`t be here looking for help.Now bugger off to your sad life and don`t blaime anyone but you .

[trish]

...when a man who claims he loves his wife ... goes and pays for sex it ruins lives.

A ruined relationship is not a ruined life. And a relationship is only ruined when the two people involved can’t get past the issues dividing them. Maybe the two of you could hire an escort and do a threesome.

Escorts don’t ruin relationships, though they sometimes pick up the pieces.

[Stavros]

Ah that's a shame. I was hoping it would be a new perversion I could explore.

Buy some of the syrup that treats a ticklish cough, dilute with water, pump into ass, wait. Apparently when combined with a couple of shots of Johnnie Walker, same route, you can ejaculate for an hour. Even if it is the last hour of your normal life.

[KelliBlueEyes]

I have actually come to realise 1 of the attraction you men have to fucking a ts escort
May have the body of a woman (except the fact they still have a cock) but they still have the brain of a man which means they can fuck and be arrogant arseholes together

At the end of the day it's just a dude in a dress with implants
Those that say it's not gay are just kidding themselves or too embarrassed to admit the truth

You said you didn’t come here to insult anyone, but you’ve insulted everyone.

FYI the “arrogant assholes” are the cis women who resent TG women, and who insist we’re really just men when science and psychology have proven otherwise.

[Stavros]

I need someone to please explain to me why a seemingly heterosexual guy who is married and loves his wife, which I do believe he does, would sleep with a ts? What is the attraction?

I can't do the accent, but in a documentary on ladyboys, a Thai transexual when asked the same question replied that her men like to suck cock and fuck ass. At its most basic, this is a fair explanation.

[DGinmass]

Buy some of the syrup that treats a ticklish cough, dilute with water, pump into ass, wait. Apparently when combined with a couple of shots of Johnnie Walker, same route, you can ejaculate for an hour. Even if it is the last hour of your normal life.

now that’s funny!!

I see what you did there lol

[GroobySteven]

Excuse me but this is his WIFE!!!! And no I'm no troll
If you don't like what I've written it's simple
FUCK OFF and go bother someone else like some dirty perverted wanker as they are 1000's on here including my husband
And yes yo was meant to be to

LOL.
Your husband is one of our biggest customers.

[josehip]

(tv's are still men as they still have a dick!!!)
holy shit, its 2018 and people are still this stupid? Come on...

[josehip]

"but they still have the brain of a man "
"At the end of the day it's just a dude in a dress with implants"
"Those that say it's not gay are just kidding themselves or too embarrassed to admit the truth"

holy shit it keeps getting worse and worse...
How is possible that people still don't know that sexual orientation and gender identity ARE COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS?

[josehip]

You said you didn’t come here to insult anyone, but you’ve insulted everyone.

FYI the “arrogant assholes” are the cis women who resent TG women, and who insist we’re really just men when science and psychology have proven otherwise.

so mmuch ignorance in so few lines.
"transwomen are dudes with wig and implants, brain of a man etc etc."
And she still says she has a gay son...
The right thing would be for her to ask for a gender vs sexual orientation class with her son.

[ilove2swallow]

look darling. your husband likes dick. strap ons save marriages

[mikelangelo1]

look darling. your husband likes dick. strap ons save marriages
lol, the best i ve read in here...

[qeuqheeg222]

re:that strap-ons save marriage..great one..i once had a girlfriend who found out that before I met her I had quite a few dalliances with ts girls.she was shocked and a bit freaked out.she thought maybe I liked cock too..not really cuz I'm a top. but she went and bought a strap on which did add a new dimension of sex to our relationship.we fucked a lot..one thing that puzzles me with females pegging males is why does the dynamic always have to be about this "yes mistress,no mistress" kinda crap..some people might just like their butt played with as a erogenous zone and have nothing to do with some dom aspects..

[must93]

What birth women fail to understand is men are visual. Transgender woman understand that and for the most part dress very sexy and move very sexy. They live to be very fem and men like that. Ask yourself did you please your man in a visual way by dressing and acting very fem. Also, have you thought of joining in with his taste in woman. It might be fun and bring you two closer.

[Upsetwife]

What birth women fail to understand is men are visual. Transgender woman understand that and for the most part dress very sexy and move very sexy. They live to be very fem and men like that. Ask yourself did you please your man in a visual way by dressing and acting very fem. Also, have you thought of joining in with his taste in woman. It might be fun and bring you two closer.

I have a wide collection of sexy outfits which I wear regularly for him but he always always removes them at some point as he says he prefers me completely naked
I'm a very feminine woman, dresses, heels, make up when we are out
A long time before we met I had a 2some with an ex and his friend (his suggestion) and it split us up. My husband has blatantly refused to even discuss bringing anyone, male or female, into the bedroom as he said he couldn't bare to see me be intimate eith anyone else and couldn't bring himself to be intimate with anyone else. It's not like I haven't tried to suggest things to him but he is not having any if it
As for the person who commented about strap ons save marriages I have suggested a few times we buy and he's dead against it
And as for the nasty piece of crap who said I'm just don't cut it for him in the bedroom, I'm the more adventurous one in that department and certainly the more highly sexed
I never meant to insult anyone on here but it's made me so mad that people can be so nasty with their comments. I do have my point of view of which everyone is entitled to.
A few years back I was very good friends with a ts who had everything done to become a woman. She always said that she had never had sex as a man because the thought of using her penis revolted her. Once she had gone through all the surgeries and was a complete woman she met an amazing man and sadly moved away and we lost contact after a few more years. This is why I find it so hard to call a ts who still has their duck a woman. I know not everyone is the same and it's a hell of a thing to go through but surely to go so far and not complete the journey means there are doubts in that person's head as to whether or not they are doing the right thing

[Upsetwife]

so mmuch ignorance in so few lines.
"transwomen are dudes with wig and implants, brain of a man etc etc."
And she still says she has a gay son...
The right thing would be for her to ask for a gender vs sexual orientation class with her son.
I know the bloody difference between gender and sexual orientation ffs
There are 2 genders, male or female
Sexual orientation there are loads
But if someone has a dick between their legs they are male end off!!!
My opinion of which I am entitled too!!!

[Upsetwife]

LOL.
Your husband is one of our biggest customers.
Lol another dirty old man who can't hack it in the real world he has to comment something nasty just to get his kicks
If 3 times in the last 2 and a half years is one of your biggest customers you seriously need to look for another line of work!!!

[broncofan]

But if someone has a dick between their legs they are male end off!!!

Everyone here would disagree with this. You're being far too thoughtless and closed-minded.

[broncofan]

A few years back I was very good friends with a ts who had everything done to become a woman. She always said that she had never had sex as a man because the thought of using her penis revolted her. Once she had gone through all the surgeries and was a complete woman she met an amazing man and sadly moved away and we lost contact after a few more years. This is why I find it so hard to call a ts who still has their duck a woman. I know not everyone is the same and it's a hell of a thing to go through but surely to go so far and not complete the journey means there are doubts in that person's head as to whether or not they are doing the right thing
I can think of a number of reasons off the top of my head. But instead of making assumptions why not be polite and ask questions.

Also, you really should talk to your husband about this. If you're too nervous to broach the subject, you're not going to get very far in understanding why he likes what he likes. If you see his behavior as a betrayal, why wouldn't you talk to him about it instead of insulting a bunch of people?

[Upsetwife]

Everyone here would disagree with this. You're being far too thoughtless and closed-minded.
Ok so what about a woman who dresses like a man, looks like a man but has a fanny still, does that make her a man? I'm not insulting anyone just asking a question of which I don't understand

[lifeisfiction]

People have no set preference especially men. People are attracted to whatever they find attractive. And with everyone it varies. Here is the truth no matter how beautiful a woman is, a man will always turn their head to look at another. Let's say if you're husband expressed he liked your cousin who, for the sake of discussion, is 7.1ft, thin woman with short green hair, you would wonder is that the type of person that excites him? If he slept with your cousin, co-worker, mail main,there would be a thousand of questions to why that person. He sought to explorewhat he wanted. I generally of the opinion, after a period of time in relationship a person will start think the grass is greener on the other side.

I give you a lot of credit, you want you're husband to be open with you about what he is feeling and keep open that line of communication. You're trying to find what went wrong or was it something you did. The honest answer is no. If feel that you still want to have a relationship or you want to understand more about where both you stand in your marriage seek marriage counseling. The crazy part you will just have to confront him about it eventually and the uncertainty of that proposition can be scary. Best of luck.

[smalltownguy]

Ok so what about a woman who dresses like a man, looks like a man but has a fanny still, does that make her a man? I'm not insulting anyone just asking a question of which I don't understand

you just can't ...its all about making your fantasies come true

[BostonBad]

Don't divorce him. Just get marriage counseling.

[josehip]

Everyone here would disagree with this. You're being far too thoughtless and closed-minded.

and you don't even need to be on a trans forum OR be a person who loves transwomen to know that stupid as fuck. Because she could say: oh you are just saying this because you like them. But no! There is a lot of guys and girls who are not attracted to trans at all and yet they are no that stupid to think if a person has a dick that person IS a man.

[josehip]

Ok so what about a woman who dresses like a man, looks like a man but has a fanny still, does that make her a man? I'm not insulting anyone just asking a question of which I don't understand

two things:
1: if this woman identifies herself as a man, then she's a fucking man!
2: and since this person is a trans man, call THIS PERSON a man is uneducated because you are purposely calling him by the pronoun he does not identify.
that's a trans man for fucks sake!

[josehip]

Ok so what about a woman who dresses like a man, looks like a man but has a fanny still, does that make her a man? I'm not insulting anyone just asking a question of which I don't understand

LOOK AT THIS PHOTO
1055836
do you really look at this person and say: NOPE that's not a man. That's a woman?

[Upsetwife]

People have no set preference especially men. People are attracted to whatever they find attractive. And with everyone it varies. Here is the truth no matter how beautiful a woman is, a man will always turn their head to look at another. Let's say if you're husband expressed he liked your cousin who, for the sake of discussion, is 7.1ft, thin woman with short green hair, you would wonder is that the type of person that excites him? If he slept with your cousin, co-worker, mail main,there would be a thousand of questions to why that person. He sought to explorewhat he wanted. I generally of the opinion, after a period of time in relationship a person will start think the grass is greener on the other side.

I give you a lot of credit, you want you're husband to be open with you about what he is feeling and keep open that line of communication. You're trying to find what went wrong or was it something you did. The honest answer is no. If feel that you still want to have a relationship or you want to understand more about where both you stand in your marriage seek marriage counseling. The crazy part you will just have to confront him about it eventually and the uncertainty of that proposition can be scary. Best of luck.

Thank you so much
I'm just so scared to confront him about this for a number of reasons. Scared of the way he may react knowing he's been caught, that he will say that's it and walk away without even discussing it or maybe even tell me the scariest thing and that's he finds ts's so attractive he can't stop
At the end of the day I'm so scared of losing him not matter what cause I love him so much it hurts, I haven't stopped crying since I found all this out and yes I may not have reacted as I should of and yes have said something's on here tgat I shouldn't off but I'm so hurt and broken I don't know what to do and it doesn't help when some people on here are so nice, like yourself and others are just plain nasty. It's my life I'm trying to deal with and I have kids to consider who absolutely adore him. I spent almost 7 years on my own before meeting him and thought I'd be on my own for good which I was fine with. But then he came along and changed my world. I know it sounds dramatic but that's how I truly feel. I can't live without him no matter how much this has hurt me ��

[Upsetwife]

LOOK AT THIS PHOTO
1055836
do you really look at this person and say: NOPE that's not a man. That's a woman?

I'm not saying that most of the ts's I've seen are stunning and look like a woman. But I'm sorry but if I met a GUY and he told me that actually he had been born a woman and still had female genitalia then I would not be interested. Call me old fashioned if you like but that's the way I am

[GroobySteven]

Call me old fashioned if you like but that's the way I am

I think you're just a bit of a cunt - or a troll - or both.

Either way, you're only staying here for comedy value.

[Upsetwife]

I think you're just a bit of a cunt - or a troll - or both.

Either way, you're only staying here for comedy value.

You are one nasty piece of work!!!!! Go wank off to something sick

[GroobySteven]

You are one nasty piece of work!!!!! Go wank off to something sick

Isn't that what you're doing here?

[josehip]

LOOK AT THIS PHOTO
1055836
do you really look at this person and say: NOPE that's not a man. That's a woman?

better yet, how about this person? Is this person a woman just because a vagina?
http://transubstanciacao.tumblr.com/post/166067923369/eu-sempre-pensei-em-fazer-um-super-v%C3%ADdeo-dahora

[Upsetwife]

better yet, how about this person? Is this person a woman just because a vagina?
http://transubstanciacao.tumblr.com/post/166067923369/eu-sempre-pensei-em-fazer-um-super-v%C3%ADdeo-dahora
I'm not getting into a debate about this. I have my views and you have yours, let's just agree to disagree yeah

[Upsetwife]

Isn't that what you're doing here?

Not at all. I've made my views clear about why I'm here for a genuine reason and it's just seems you have nothing to say but be vile and evil so this is my last response to you.
I'll save my time for those decent people on here who actually might understand tgat I'm hurting and deeply broken over this so goodbye

[GroobySteven]

Not at all. I've made my views clear about why I'm here for a genuine reason and it's just seems you have nothing to say but be vile and evil so this is my last response to you.
I'll save my time for those decent people on here who actually might understand tgat I'm hurting and deeply broken over this so goodbye

Prove that you are real - and that I'll apologise and let you stay here.

[Upsetwife]

Prove that you are real - and that I'll apologise and let you stay here.
How?

[GroobySteven]

How?

PM a photo holding a piece of paper with 'upsetwife' on it - u only need to show the bottom 1/2 of your face and I'll verify and then delete.

[Upsetwife]

PM a photo holding a piece of paper with 'upsetwife' on it - u only need to show the bottom 1/2 of your face and I'll verify and then delete.

pm sent

[MrFanti]

Thank you so much
I'm just so scared to confront him about this for a number of reasons. Scared of the way he may react knowing he's been caught, that he will say that's it and walk away without even discussing it or maybe even tell me the scariest thing and that's he finds ts's so attractive he can't stop
At the end of the day I'm so scared of losing him not matter what cause I love him so much it hurts, I haven't stopped crying since I found all this out and yes I may not have reacted as I should of and yes have said something's on here tgat I shouldn't off but I'm so hurt and broken I don't know what to do and it doesn't help when some people on here are so nice, like yourself and others are just plain nasty. It's my life I'm trying to deal with and I have kids to consider who absolutely adore him. I spent almost 7 years on my own before meeting him and thought I'd be on my own for good which I was fine with. But then he came along and changed my world. I know it sounds dramatic but that's how I truly feel. I can't live without him no matter how much this has hurt me ��

Communication is the key to ANY relationship be it love, friendship, or business, ALL will fail without communication.

[Murmdrum]

now Im dying to see if she verified with a photo

[BostonBad]

More importantly, did your hubby spit or swallow?

[Upsetwife]

now Im dying to see if she verified with a photo

Yes I did. I'm no TROLL

[syla]

Shame. I feel bad for Upsetwife. One of her posts/comments sounded like my wife. Before this explosion. I almost feared that I'd been caught myself.

Shame.

All I can say is that he needs to get over this... I don't mean this as a joke, but get him Suzanna Holmes or that Ednita I've heard about...you sound like you're from the UK. But get the biggest cock TS escort for him,or a porn star (that nice man Mr Grooby above could help) he'd recognize if money allows; and let him get his life fucked outta him. (Don't be there - this is important).

I believe he needs to reach the climax of his fantasy. To realise it....and that could start ending his dirty desire. For me personally I need to get topped and cum with no hands stimulation (maybe 6 or more times over) and then I'll know I've conquered this TS phase I'm dealing. But after that I know I'll get bored and likely pull away.

Now don't delay in acting because year on year these ladies are looking ever more so beautiful than you natural women with re-usable vaginas. And their cocks are getting bigger etc. I personally feel in this modern age, 2018, today, it's sooo difficult to break away from the TS addiction. TS dick is goood with an extra o. And hell, he could end up dating one secretly and no one would ever tell in public they're so damn intoxicatingly beautiful. The key is in you starting the conversation,or you find out who his fantasy or Top 10 is one on these boards and have him come home to Yasmin Lee waiting to fuck the shit out of him literally in his bedroom. (Ahh man!😍)
But you need to act.

Pm me, and we can talk further if you'd like views from one of the married men on here.

[GroobySteven]

Ok - I'll stand correct (I think) as I did get a photo of someone holding a message.
So I apologise for calling you a cunt. We've had lots of 'wannabe' come here and pull shit just to get off.

Here's the thing, you're complaining and crying about why your husband is attracted to this - but you're not listening - you're just complaining and then arguing that people are wrong.
No, we don't have to 'agree to disagree'. If you cannot except that trans women are women, regardless of their genitalia then you are just plain and simply WRONG.

I really think you'd be better looking for a support group then on a forum which is mainly dedicated to the adult industry.

Your husband has fantasies about this - whether he acts on them or not, does not make him abnormal. If he 'cheats' on you then it's irrelevant whether it's with any gender, if you're morally unable to come to terms with it (many people have no problem with this - as alien as it may seem to you). Whether cheating, or having fantasies or whatever - it doesn't necessarily and shouldn't be seen as a slight to you, or mean he has any less love for you, it just means he also needs this. And if you're functioning up until you found out as a happy couple, then just pack this into a box and live with it. He's not going to change.

[iamneelix]

Trolls can be female.

[lifeisfiction]

I think you're just a bit of a cunt - or a troll - or both.

Either way, you're only staying here for comedy value.

She's legit, I have know people who have been cheated on or who currently cheat on their spouse. It's one thing to hear of it and it's another thing to have people come and complain or tell how they found out. She doesn't know how to confront her husband. She has built a life with him and she is afraid to start over or to be alone. While a lot my friends cheat on their wives, I have known enough wives who had cheated on their husband or have stolen another woman's spouse. People saying she needs to get a strap-on or nonsense like don't understand it is not a solution.

Right now, she wants to know if this is porn he is looking at and can she gives him the same experience? If he is acting on it, was it something she did? I really think, if she can't confront him, give him an ultimatum or either they talk about it, they seek counseling or they go their separate ways. It is far worst then staying in something like that.

I could tell you some absolute funny stories on cheating, funny for me not for them. Some really deep discussions I had with people on it from their experience. I think we should encourage to try an console her marriage, because she won't find the solution here and she is just delaying it even more so.

[legault]

Just come here and I'll tale care of your frustration ;)

[natina]

He wants " The Dick" but wants it on a feminine form/visual even if he doesn't touch the dick.
He needs adventure, taboo......

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qMoEs7eQeZE

[IluvemHung]

Thank you but was hoping to get someone's personal experience of it to try and help me undetstand

Try not to rake it personal but sometimes a man can have a curiosity or a craving for something and pursue it. Not like it okay but it happens. Its just not fair or right when you do it and your already committed to someone. I know of a woman that has done the same thing to her husband and it was with another woman. Her husband was kind of upset but they're working it out. Maybe he was more upset because he didnt get join in... who knows. He is more embarrassed if anything. It happens.

[LittleGuy]

Grooby, that's a very mean thing to say to women. If another man said this, you would banned them.

[GroobySteven]

Grooby, that's a very mean thing to say to women. If another man said this, you would banned them.

So I can say this to a man - and not get banned, or say it to a woman and get banned? That's equality for you.

How about this, I can say it to anyone I believe is a troll. And I'm still not convinced she's not a troll.

As one of the gatekeepers to this forum, I'm see 100's of similar posts like this over the years, usually by people with agendas or just providing their own jack-off material. Most of it doesn't get to you as one of the mods kick it early. In this case, I was wrong about it being a guy (I think I was wrong) and have apologised for that, but not about the trolling which we'll see.

If you don't like, I can offer you a full refund for what you pay for this site?

[johnnyshemalelover]

If he wanted to be rogered as you put it he should married a guy

Or one of the millions of women who aren't too hung up to use a strap-on on their man, maybe?

[Upsetwife]

I haven't commented on here for a while as have been trying to get my head around what to do about it. My husband and I spoke last night about swingers clubs and have agreed to look into it. Just us being together and probably others watching yo start with and of course watching others and then see where it goes although he did say he wouldn't feel comfortable going 'all the way' with anyone else or seeing me go 'all the way' with anyone so we will see
We have spoke in depth this morning about things that are on my mind and worrying me and although I didn't actually come out and tell him I knew about this site it was clear he knows I know about at least something, it's hard to talk right now as my son is about so he has said we will sit and talk more this evening once he's in bed. I've made it clear that yes I may be upset and hurt by things he has to say but I would def not go mad or be angry as long as he is honest with me and yes I can forgive anything as I do live him wuth all my heart so we will see how it gies. It surprised me how calm he was as he usually kicks off and has a hot temper.
Just want to thank all of those who have been so kind ad thoughtful and tried to help me with my feelings and understanding of this and to those that have been just plain nasty please just think about who your hurting with your words. I am real, I'm not a troll, and yes it's my life. I may not off dealt with it as I should and I probably shouldn't of come on here and starred ranting but I can't take it back, all I can do is apologise for interrupting anyone who didn't come here to hear this
I wish you all the best of luck
Xx

[Upsetwife]

Or one of the millions of women who aren't too hung up to use a strap-on on their man, maybe?

I have offered to use a strap on and he said it was going to far but has agreed to a prostate stimulator

[mikelangelo1]

[QUOTE=Upsetwife;1819317]I have offered to use a strap on and he said it was going to far but has agreed to a prostate stimulator[/QUOTE so, it seems that u have reconciled with each other

[Stavros]

I am unable to produce the data if it exists, that says most people do not tell the truth about their sexual desires and their sexual history, even to their partners, but I have long believed it.
Most people across the world are brought up to believe that heterosexual relations that create a family are the building blocks of all human society, and moreover, that this is the most desirable form of social structure. It may be that for most people this is not in itself problematic, but I do think that it is clear that even with a happy or stable marriage, the two partners can be unhappy, and that the cause of this unhappiness is a lack of a sense of fulfillment of sexual desire.

Most men and women who pay for sex are in some way unhappy or dissatisfied with their partner, though this does not mean they consider that person to be inadequate, as it is their sexual desire, even fantasy that drives them to pay for sex. In some cases there may be a simple reason: the wife has lost interest in sex, and is indifferent to her partner's desire. What must be a genuinely distressing situation may be relieved if the partners simply open up and discuss it, yet for those who have desires that cross an invisible boundary marked by gender or social role, this could threaten the integrity of the family, and so prefer to hide the truth.

Imagine a man who can only reach sexual fulfillment when dressed in a rubber suit and face mask, led in chains and on all fours around a room by an Amazon with a whip. It sounds comical almost, like the Gimp in Pulp Fiction, but is in fact serious for the person concerned (cf Miike's film Ichi the Killer), as is also the case with men who only feel fulfilled when they are 'taking it up the ass' which for thousands of years has been typecast as a sign of 'de-masculinity' or weakness.

The solution, that partners should talk to each other, may thus be too risky, too difficult to achieve. The key point must be that if the partner discovers his or her 'secret' it should not reflect badly on either of them. Human beings are naturally curious and experiment with chemicals as well as foods, exercise and sex. It has been easy to cast doubt on the OP because of the history of this forum, but it does not mean we should not take seriously the issues concerned, even if there is no simple resolution to them.

[legault]

It is a sign of weakness and demasculinity and no matter what you say or do, women and by proxy most of human society will view it that way. It's human nature.

[runningdownthatdream]

I have offered to use a strap on and he said it was going to far but has agreed to a prostate stimulator

This isn't going to end well

[Upsetwife]

This isn't going to end well

Why?

[Upsetwife]

I have offered to use a strap on and he said it was going to far but has agreed to a prostate stimulator so, it seems that u have reconciled with each other

We are getting there. More talking tonight as I haven't actually confronted him about this site yet but we will see how it goes
He's always been very loving and touchy and always coming up behind me when I'm doing something for a hug and always kissing me but after our chat last night and this morning he's even more loving. He knows I know something, I can tell by the way he's looking at me but he hadn't opened up and admitted snything. I've hot a feeling he will deny it all anyway and say he's never actually gone through with any if it out of embarrassment and if that's the case I'm not going to push him for answers
I'm just taking it 1 day at a time from now on and see how it goes

[CaptainPlanet]

This isn't going to end well


Why?

Well for one not all guys that like TS are into having there own butts played with.

[Upsetwife]

Well for one not all guys that like TS are into having there own butts played with.
He stated on here that when this certain ts fucked him wow his horizons where widen so I'm guessing he likes it, besides he likes it when I finger his arse and he's admitted he wants me try a prostate massager on him which I have bought so we will see

[KelliBlueEyes]

We are getting there. More talking tonight as I haven't actually confronted him about this site yet but we will see how it goes
He's always been very loving and touchy and always coming up behind me when I'm doing something for a hug and always kissing me but after our chat last night and this morning he's even more loving. He knows I know something, I can tell by the way he's looking at me but he hadn't opened up and admitted snything. I've hot a feeling he will deny it all anyway and say he's never actually gone through with any if it out of embarrassment and if that's the case I'm not going to push him for answers
I'm just taking it 1 day at a time from now on and see how it goes

Realistically quite a few married guys visit, or have visited, escorts. Of course I understand how your actually finding out that your husband is doing so has upset you. Curious as to why you were snooping in the first place?
Anyway, assuming you love him and want to stay together, it probably won’t hurt, and may help, for you two to have a frank discussion about what you’ve discovered.
Probably would be helpful to you for you not to have any expectations regarding his future behavior. He’s not going to stop seeing escorts occasionally. Either you’re going to give him what amounts to “permission”, or he’s going to get better at hiding these activities from you.

[CaptainPlanet]

He stated on here that when this certain ts fucked him wow his horizons where widen so I'm guessing he likes it, besides he likes it when I finger his arse and he's admitted he wants me try a prostate massager on him which I have bought so we will see

well then I stand corrected. Would you consider a 3 some with a TS and your husband? And how do you know he hasn't seen your post yet?

[Upsetwife]

well then I stand corrected. Would you consider a 3 some with a TS and your husband? And how do you know he hasn't seen your post yet?

I did suggest we go to 1 of the swingers nights when there are ts/tv/cd's there but he said it would freak him out too much as he doesn't do men.
He hasn't seen my post cause he's account has been ban by the site

[MrFanti]

My husband and I spoke last night about swingers clubs and have agreed to look into it.

Xx
I know some folks in the swinging scene....they are quite content!

[MrFanti]

Addendum: I haven't read through the entire mess so forgive me if this has already been addressed. I think a key factor in understanding your husband with regard to his relationship with you is to find out whether or not he is a "top" or "bottom" with transgender women.

[Upsetwife]

Realistically quite a few married guys visit, or have visited, escorts. Of course I understand how your actually finding out that your husband is doing so has upset you. Curious as to why you were snooping in the first place?
Anyway, assuming you love him and want to stay together, it probably won’t hurt, and may help, for you two to have a frank discussion about what you’ve discovered.
Probably would be helpful to you for you not to have any expectations regarding his future behavior. He’s not going to stop seeing escorts occasionally. Either you’re going to give him what amounts to “permission”, or he’s going to get better at hiding these activities from you.

I wasn't actually snooping to start with. He was in the bath and his phone was on the sofa next to me and it went off, we often answer each other's phone if the other is not in the room but it was just an email but the heading shows on the screen without you opening it. It said it was from hungangels, his username and thank you for joining. As you can imagine I was shocked to say the least. I then looked on the site on my phone, entered the username and the password I thought he may use and it came up. I also knew it was def him as we met on POF a few years ago and it was the same username almost, only thing missing was the year he was born was on the end of his POF account and he had missed that off on here

[legault]

Dude ggs are much better at the end than ts. Nothing beats that warm fuzzy natural pussy

[Upsetwife]

I know some folks in the swinging scene....they are quite content!

Really?
To be honest it isn't something I've ever thought about before but we spoke in depth last night about our sex life and although it us amazing and we have sex regularly we both said it wouldn't hurt to try new things. Both have agreed that we will look into it more in depth before we actually sign up and both decide before we go what our limits are although he stated straight away that in no way would he penetrate anyone else or want anyone to penetrate me and strictly no kissing which I agreed too.
The 1st time will probably be awkward and a bit embarrassing but who knows until we try. It may end up being the 1st and only time we go or we could end up really enjoying it, my husband said for him it's more about other people watching us as he loves watching my face when he makes me orgasm and would love to see if it has the same effect on otger guys as it does him.
You only live once hey

[mikelangelo1]

so, a new era seems to start for u both

[Upsetwife]

Addendum: I haven't read through the entire mess so forgive me if this has already been addressed. I think a key factor in understanding your husband with regard to his relationship with you is to find out whether or not he is a "top" or "bottom" with transgender women.

If we ever get to the point where he will admit he's been with ts that's a question I will definitely ask but going by his comments on here he was a bottom when he visited the ts escorts. He enjoys anal with me as he had never tried it before and I had so I asked him to try it with me, it's not something we do regularly but we have done it quite a few times, he enjoys it in my arse while he uses a dildo in my pussy, really turns him on. I was also the 1st woman to use my finger in his arse, he was a bit shocked the 1st time and saud he wasn't sure he actually enjoyed it but a while later while I was in 69 position it was obvious from the way he had his legs spread wide and moving his arse up a bit more than usual he wanted me to try again which I did and he enjoyed it as came loads
Part of me when I found his comments on thought maybe if I hadn't introduced him to that then maybe he wouldn't of been curious about ts's and I was beating myself up about it but I know that's stupid

[Upsetwife]

so, a new era seems to start for u both

Maybe. He was quite shocked when I mentioned it last night lol he knows I'm very adventurous in the bedroom and I've done things he hadn't in my past but the look on his face was priceless

[Upsetwife]

Dude ggs are much better at the end than ts. Nothing beats that warm fuzzy natural pussy

He loves my pussy lol says it looks and tastes like a peach lol

[MrFanti]

Really?
To be honest it isn't something I've ever thought about before but we spoke in depth last night about our sex life and although it us amazing and we have sex regularly we both said it wouldn't hurt to try new things. Both have agreed that we will look into it more in depth before we actually sign up and both decide before we go what our limits are although he stated straight away that in no way would he penetrate anyone else or want anyone to penetrate me and strictly no kissing which I agreed too.
The 1st time will probably be awkward and a bit embarrassing but who knows until we try. It may end up being the 1st and only time we go or we could end up really enjoying it, my husband said for him it's more about other people watching us as he loves watching my face when he makes me orgasm and would love to see if it has the same effect on otger guys as it does him.
You only live once hey
Yes.
And if executed correctly (this is the key) i.e. shed all jealousy and look at non-marriage partners as "toys", then it's a win/win for both people in the relationship. YOU get to try try things you only dreamed of and so does he...

[MrFanti]

You only live once hey

Now you're starting to get it! :cool:

[josehip]

Addendum: I haven't read through the entire mess so forgive me if this has already been addressed. I think a key factor in understanding your husband with regard to his relationship with you is to find out whether or not he is a "top" or "bottom" with transgender women.

bottom.

[legault]

I wouldnt agree with such adultety

[holzz]

I'm so upset to see my husband has commented on this post:

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?99128-Ana888-and-ts-Amandada

and admitted he's cheated on me with ts. I have nothing against people doing these things and getting paid for it after all it's their bodies to do with what they like but when a man who claims he loves his wife and has regular sex (so can't say it's a lack of sex in the relationship) goes and pays for sex it ruins lives. It would be hard enough to deal with just knowing it's other females he's been cheating with but to find out he's been with other men (tv's are still men as they still have a dick!!!) And really enjoyed it!! I dont know how to deal with this :-( I can not compete with another man

infidelity is never good, naturally. i'm sorry you have to go through this.

but then with respect, escorts won't stop because they cannot verify that their clients are married. most dont' care, since they want the money.

[Upsetwife]

infidelity is never good, naturally. i'm sorry you have to go through this.

but then with respect, escorts won't stop because they cannot verify that their clients are married. most dont' care, since they want the money.

Oh I know they wouldn't and at the end of the day they are just in it for the money or I'm guessing most of them are anyway
I'm not blaming the escorts although I don't agree with what they are doing it's non of my business what someone does with their body, it's their choice. It's the married men who do this that are in the wrong, if your single then you can please yourself, if your married then you took vows to stay faithful, simple in my eyes

[rodinuk]

... and admitted he's cheated on me with ts. I have nothing against people doing these things and getting paid for it after all it's their bodies to do with what they like ...


...I'm not blaming the escorts although I don't agree with what they are doing it's non of my business what someone does with their body, it's their choice.

Consistent, not

[Upsetwife]

Consistent, not
I don't have anything personal against the escorts and just because I don't agree with ie it's not for me that doesn't mean I don't think tgey have the right to do what they want so how is that inconsistent?

[mikelangelo1]

i think in a little while, u will become an expert in escorts, lol! kisses sweet lady!

[holzz]

I'm not being harsh to you OP. But then are you here to just vent? This is an issue you should take up with your spouse. Clearly he likes trans women on some level,

[Upsetwife]

I'm not being harsh to you OP. But then are you here to just vent? This is an issue you should take up with your spouse. Clearly he likes trans women on some level,
I was here initially to vent as I didn't know what to do, never had yo deal with anything like before and life unfortunately doesn't come with an instruction manual, but now I find myself talking to some really lovely people and I have learnt quite a bit
Obviously still not happy that he cheated and doesn't seem like he is going to admit to anything and tbh I'm not surprised. I know it would be so hard for him to tell me what he's done and probably feels ashamed but we have spoken about other stuff in length over the last 2 days and we are experimenting more, joined a swingers club just waiting for the approval for membership then we will arrange a visit to the club one eve and see how we feel when we are there. Plus last night was amazing 😜 lol

[Upsetwife]

I have made it quite clear to him that what ever has already happened we will leave in the past but he knows now I'm not happy with any sexual activity either in person with someone or via phone/text or internet chat as I class that as cheating. We can watch porn together and experiment between ourselves and be open about it then that's gotta be better than the sneaking about and worrying about getting caught and he totally agreed so we will just have yo see how it goes. He's very very happy about the swingers club but said just us and no one else joining in to start at least as he thinks that having other people watch us have sex will be a huge turn on for him and I have to agree altho I am very nervous naturally

[Upsetwife]

I'm not being harsh to you OP. But then are you here to just vent? This is an issue you should take up with your spouse. Clearly he likes trans women on some level,

I have offered him to invite a ts to join us but he declined saying he couldn't do that. Not sure if all his comments on here were just provardo and he hadn't actually gone through with any of it or he just too ashamed to admit it to me but 1 thing he said last night was he thinks that fantasies should stay as just that as in reality it's never as good as you imagine so maybe the whole ts thing was a fantasy of his and it's now out of his system

[GroobySteven]

I have offered him to invite a ts to join us but he declined saying he couldn't do that. Not sure if all his comments on here were just provardo and he hadn't actually gone through with any of it or he just too ashamed to admit it to me but 1 thing he said last night was he thinks that fantasies should stay as just that as in reality it's never as good as you imagine so maybe the whole ts thing was a fantasy of his and it's now out of his system

Bullshit.

I was right the first time.

[broncofan]

What also doesn't make sense is why after discussing the subject with him, she has continued to post here about it, and he has not thought to search the forum. If they've discussed it why is she continuing to vent about it publicly and where is he...it really doesn't make sense.

I am also fascinated by her use of the word provardo to mean bravado...it's not often an American gets to make fun of a Brit for their use of language.

[broncofan]

If they've discussed it why is she continuing to vent about it publicly and where is he...it really doesn't make sense.

And maybe I didn't cross-reference the posts right, but the person her posts indicate is her husband was on the forum 18 hours ago. Is it her logging on as him again, is it him but he hasn't yet found this thread despite her supposedly bringing up the subject of ts' with him in person? If everything she said were true, why is she continuing to post and where is he?

[iamneelix]

This was pretty clearly fabricated from the get go, I'm surprised it's gone on this long. Either OP is taking too many meds or not enough.

[broncofan]

Oh I know they wouldn't and at the end of the day they are just in it for the money or I'm guessing most of them are anyway

Is your husband canveyfella and was he on here at almost the exact same time you were posting this? Almost like you logged off of one account and immediately posted in another?? It would have been 1:28 am in Britain. Where were you and where was he? Is your marriage so strained that you are separated at 1:28 am?

[syla]

Hey Upsetwife, I'm upset that you completely disregarded my comment on here...yet your resolution of tapping into his fantasy was exactly MY suggestion.

He needs gets his ass fuct - I told you this. I know, I'm married too.

(So I had to come and say this because you ignored my 2c advice)

Grooby said it too. It's just all fantasy.

[Laphroaig]

Is your husband canveyfella and was he on here at almost the exact same time you were posting this? Almost like you logged off of one account and immediately posted in another?? It would have been 1:28 am in Britain. Where were you and where was he? Is your marriage so strained that you are separated at 1:28 am?

That's who I thought it was as well. Interesting that Upsetwife has been back on line only an hour ago, but for once not commented...

[Upsetwife]

That's who I thought it was as well. Interesting that Upsetwife has been back on line only an hour ago, but for once not commented...

I only come back on to answer my private messages as got a few really lovely people I'm talking to.
What's the point in me continuing to comment on here as I only get nasty comments and get called a troll or a liar of which i am neither so I'm just going to stick to pm's

[broncofan]

That's who I thought it was as well. Interesting that Upsetwife has been back on line only an hour ago, but for once not commented...
Rodinuk made a good point several pages back which was to cross-reference the threads upsetwife commented on. After doing that I came to that canveyfella whose profile has been visited by upsetwife (whether upsetwife rated one of his posts to make this all seem plausible or whether she did it because she is a jilted wife I don't know for certain though I'm leaning towards the former).

Upsetwife said a few pages back on this thread that her husband's account was banned or blocked from the site which is why after more than a week of posting and after talking to her husband about ts' he did not find her comments. Yet, one does not have to be logged in to look at a limited number of posts, and canveyfella was active after she claimed her husband's account had been blocked.

It does not make sense that they'd have these conversations and he would not immediately make attempts to get on here and see what gave it away.

Given all that has been said and that the names are aliases, her reluctance to confirm which one was her husband's account seems peculiar. Doubly peculiar if it was Canveyfella and they were both on the forum at almost the same exact time at around 1:30 am several nights ago. I don't know the answer but it doesn't seem right...and none of my questions were rude either...

[jacqui_jones]

TS escort here. Where about are you, I might be the one that your husband has been fucking. O well.

I would say 99% of my clients are married men. So I will give you an insight. I have regular clients that talk to me alot about why they come and see me. Its an adventure, something that they enjoy on there own. Its a thrill that they enjoy, they enjoy doing it behind the wifes back and not getting caught. More to the point of why they see a TS. Its because they like cock, not because they are gay. Gay men like other gay men. They like the females form and as every guy will say on here, we make more effort to be feminine. We are female btw, I am legally female so please do not refer to me as a man. The big part for any guy meeting a TS, is that they know when we have cum, they can see it. Its a turn on for the fact that they can see it without any doubt, its great for the ego.

I have an idea for you. Why dont you find yourself a bi TS escort and book her. I have had couple and single females book me in the past and not only do I love cock but I also love pussy. Experience what it is like to be with a girl like me, have the adventure and then maybe, just maybe you might understand.

A word of warning about your husband though, once you go TS and you enjoy it, you wont go back. He might say that he will give it up for you but I garantee 100% that he wont. Hes hooked.

Best of luck x

[mikelangelo1]

TS escort here. Where about are you, I might be the one that your husband has been fucking. O well.

I would say 99% of my clients are married men. So I will give you an insight. I have regular clients that talk to me alot about why they come and see me. Its an adventure, something that they enjoy on there own. Its a thrill that they enjoy, they enjoy doing it behind the wifes back and not getting caught. More to the point of why they see a TS. Its because they like cock, not because they are gay. Gay men like other gay men. They like the females form and as every guy will say on here, we make more effort to be feminine. We are female btw, I am legally female so please do not refer to me as a man. The big part for any guy meeting a TS, is that they know when we have cum, they can see it. Its a turn on for the fact that they can see it without any doubt, its great for the ego.

I have an idea for you. Why dont you find yourself a bi TS escort and book her. I have had couple and single females book me in the past and not only do I love cock but I also love pussy. Experience what it is like to be with a girl like me, have the adventure and then maybe, just maybe you might understand.

A word of warning about your husband though, once you go TS and you enjoy it, you wont go back. He might say that he will give it up for you but I garantee 100% that he wont. Hes hooked.

Best of luck x

its true...

[bassman2546]

I'm so upset to see my husband has commented on this post:

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?99128-Ana888-and-ts-Amandada

and admitted he's cheated on me with ts. I have nothing against people doing these things and getting paid for it after all it's their bodies to do with what they like but when a man who claims he loves his wife and has regular sex (so can't say it's a lack of sex in the relationship) goes and pays for sex it ruins lives. It would be hard enough to deal with just knowing it's other females he's been cheating with but to find out he's been with other men (tv's are still men as they still have a dick!!!) And really enjoyed it!! I dont know how to deal with this :-( I can not compete with another man

Sooo, it was the thread you attached that was proof of your husband having a TS affair? Then what drew you to this site to stumble across this thread? Oh I know, the need to post absolute bullshit! Stop wasting everyone's time!

[melody mayheim]

I think there's men out there who r into genetic girls...and there's men out there who are into ts girls. Most men who are into ts girls settle for genetic girls because it's "normal" and "acceptable" but at the end of the day, she's right 100% he will never be faithful to you. He will always be back! You either need to divorce him or accept it.

[smalltownguy]

I think there's men out there who r into genetic girls...and there's men out there who are into ts girls. Most men who are into ts girls settle for genetic girls because it's "normal" and "acceptable" but at the end of the day, she's right 100% he will never be faithful to you. He will always be back! You either need to divorce him or accept it.

:iagree:

[hiwatt1000]

...coming to this this late...but totally agree with you on this...

...that gay stigma is never going to go away ---for the laity--- but agree, it's fantasy, it's escape and interesting that you suggested it's the 'being able to see someone ejaculate' that helps the encounter...BUT the married man cheating on his wife for this is kinda frowned on...not judging, just lame...


TS escort here. Where about are you, I might be the one that your husband has been fucking. O well.

I would say 99% of my clients are married men. So I will give you an insight. I have regular clients that talk to me alot about why they come and see me. Its an adventure, something that they enjoy on there own. Its a thrill that they enjoy, they enjoy doing it behind the wifes back and not getting caught. More to the point of why they see a TS. Its because they like cock, not because they are gay. Gay men like other gay men. They like the females form and as every guy will say on here, we make more effort to be feminine. We are female btw, I am legally female so please do not refer to me as a man. The big part for any guy meeting a TS, is that they know when we have cum, they can see it. Its a turn on for the fact that they can see it without any doubt, its great for the ego.

I have an idea for you. Why dont you find yourself a bi TS escort and book her. I have had couple and single females book me in the past and not only do I love cock but I also love pussy. Experience what it is like to be with a girl like me, have the adventure and then maybe, just maybe you might understand.

A word of warning about your husband though, once you go TS and you enjoy it, you wont go back. He might say that he will give it up for you but I garantee 100% that he wont. Hes hooked.

Best of luck x

[tacocorpv2]

Once a cheater always a cheater. I'd recommend divorcing him. Also, I'd marry Melody :D :D

[dhc]

More to the point of why they see a TS. Its because they like cock, not because they are gay.

Look: this is categorically untrue.






Some of us like ass.

[carl essex]

oh give it up already... either stay with him or go.... but if you stay you have to accept this is part of him, it will never go away. there is so much you can enjoy together if you just chill and live your life together enjoying the excitement that this can bring. if not split and start again

[sherricd]

I think this is pretty simple, really. Most men are not monogamous by nature, so when they're in a marriage or committed relationship they make a conscious decision to be faithful to only one person, but that doesn't mean it's always easy. Temptation is always lurking, even when they're very much in love. What's more, some men fall somewhere in between the gender binary in terms of sexuality and sexual preference so it's quite possible to be attracted to gender fluidity even if their desire is predominantly heterosexual. The internet can really amp up such proclivities. Now add to the mix guys who are willing to cheat on their SO and you have a recipe for trouble. To me, none of that is hard to figure out or understand, but that doesn't make it alright. Your husband is a creep for cheating on you, and for being too lame to involve you in sorting this out. The question is, what are you going to do about it?

[melody mayheim]

My taco ♡

[youngblood61]

Move on.

[KelliBlueEyes]

Look: this is categorically untrue.




Some of us like ass.

Exactly, great oral and guaranteed anal

[TheBlueEyedKid]

This is definitely bull shit. The critical clue is in the ‘wife’s’ claim that they met on Plenty Of Fish, but that they have a son together which stops them talking about stuff.

For them not to be able to talk in front of their son, he must be at least 10 or 11, otherwise he wouldn’t understand any of the context.

Plenty of fish only really took off in 2009, so you do the maths guys and girls.

[Upsetwife]

This is definitely bull shit. The critical clue is in the ‘wife’s’ claim that they met on Plenty Of Fish, but that they have a son together which stops them talking about stuff.

For them not to be able to talk in front of their son, he must be at least 10 or 11, otherwise he wouldn’t understand any of the context.

Plenty of fish only really took off in 2009, so you do the maths guys and girls.

Yes we met on plenty of fish in August 2015. My youngest son is 11 almost 12 from my PREVIOUS MARRAIGE of which I also have a 19 year old.
Enough info for ya!!!!

[Upsetwife]

Exactly, great oral and guaranteed anal

He gets the best oral from me and Anal when ever he wants it.
Real women like Anal too!!!!

[mikelangelo1]

He gets the best oral from me and Anal when ever he wants it.
Real women like Anal too!!!!

mmmm glad to hear !

[tslvr]

Hey UW, if you have a hairy pussy, you can cheat on him with me!

[Upsetwife]

Hey UW, if you have a hairy pussy, you can cheat on him with me!
Lol thanks for the offer but I don't cheat
Plus I'm smooth down there just as he likes it lol

[youngblood61]

He gets the best oral from me and Anal when ever he wants it.
Real women like Anal too!!!!That's a good thing.

[orange86]

Upset Wife, if you would like to talk about it over a few glasses of wine and see where things lead...., im more than happy to see you. im up in yorkshire.

[hamdasl]

I'm curious about the other 76 posts.

[GroobySteven]

Lol thanks for the offer but I don't cheat
Plus I'm smooth down there just as he likes it lol

What a crock of shit.

[Enthusiast]

What a crock of shit.
I couldn’t agree more. Time for you to close this thread . Enough of feeding the troll.

[GroobySteven]

I couldn’t agree more. Time for you to close this thread . Enough of feeding the troll.

Agreed.