WHY do you like trans women?

[holzz]

whether sexually or romantically?

is there a reason, or just because? for me, i dunno why. it was an evolution that started years ago, and long before trans porn or even trans issues became mainstream.

[Aticus100]

Interesting angle on an age old question (until someone responds with "cos they got dicks")

I wont bore you with the details of how I met my partner but prior to meeting her had no interest in, or real knowledge of, trans people.

Now, the majority of extended group of friends are somewhere on the trans spectrum or in relationships with someone who is.

Aside from the sexual aspect, I find I connect better with M to F trans people and think this may be about having a shared approach to life and practical things in general (no need for all that "Men are from Mars and women are from Venus stuff when you both started life on Mars).

I get on better with them as "mates" than with women. I've been married three times and have a fair bit of experience when it comes to how hard it can be understand women.

I like that my girlfriend can park my car properly. I don't like that she can kick my arse on Call of Duty.

My straight mates laterally queue up for the opportunity to come out and party with our group and have all commented on how exceptionally friendly, complimentary and welcoming all our friends are. I believe that this has something to do with Trans people being very understanding of what it is to seek acceptance and so are incredibly accepting of other.

And then there's the sex.

Others may disagree but here's my own experience.

It's great being with people who look like very attractive women but have a male attitude to sex. No hang ups, no issues, nothing that can't be said or discussed, a completely practical attitude to our shared male sex drives.

No bitching, no backstabbing, no jealousy, no unnecessary attachment of emotions, just a great attitude to sex.

So there it is. Be interesting to see what other people experiences and thoughts are.

[Gillian]

I'd echo all of the above ... ;)

[daltx_m]

'cause I like butt sex and most GG won't do it.

[unamasa]

Sorry, but I´m going to say "Cos they got dicks." From an aesthetic and sexual viewpoint at least.
Also, like Aticus I find I´m on the same wavelength as the vast majority of transgendered women.
Add to that respect and admiration for their courage , honesty and determination. Can´t always be easy when dad realises his "son" isn´t going to be a professional boxer or Play for Arsenal.

[smalltownguy]

well... i think trans woman have both body parts of women and men so they understand the feelings hidden behind them and have broader concept to life itself

[Tapatio]

Anybody who says anything except “because they have dicks” is seriously delusional.

You’re justifying the penis, not explaining your attraction.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Because they can be just as attractive and feminine as GGs. It's hot seeing a girl cum and more often than GGs they do it for real. When she cums a lot, it's even hotter. The sex can be better sometimes because she isn't faking in my experience

[BeardedOne]

They laugh at my horrible jokes and can understand why I like stray cats more than I do people.



Oh, and dicks.

[CoolAwesomeBXDude]

Because i like what i like

[Aticus100]

Anybody who says anything except “because they have dicks” is seriously delusional.

You’re justifying the penis, not explaining your attraction.

I call bullshit. In my post I literally explained my attraction. None of which was centred around a penis which I see no need to justify. Can you expand or explain?

I’m pretty sure I’m not in the slightest bit delusional. Quite the opposite, in fact, I’d say I have remarkable clarity of mind in regard to my attraction.

[Tapatio]

I call bullshit. In my post I literally explained my attraction. None of which was centred around a penis which I see no need to justify. Can you expand or explain?

I’m pretty sure I’m not in the slightest bit delusional. Quite the opposite, in fact, I’d say I have remarkable clarity of mind in regard to my attraction.

All of the traits you mentioned can be found in GGs.

What can’t be found? A penis. (Unless someone puts it there.)

[Tapatio]

Because i like what i like

Right on.

[Aticus100]

All of the traits you mentioned can be found in GGs.

What can’t be found? A penis. (Unless someone puts it there.)

You are correct that all of those can be found SOME women but are far less common and far less genuine than in tranns women.

I’ve spent a fair bit of time dating within the swinging scene and even there women who claim to be exceptionally liberated turn out to have hang ups over sex.

I met my IH and was attracted to her personality without knowing she had a Orbis so where does that leave you assumptions?

While I now thoroughly enjoy playing with a trans woman’s cock, I am just as partial to the anatomy of a GG but I find the personality and connectivity with a trans woman to be greater. I see ni delusion in that.

[Tapatio]

You are correct that all of those can be found SOME women but are far less common and far less genuine than in tranns women.

I’ve spent a fair bit of time dating within the swinging scene and even there women who claim to be exceptionally liberated turn out to have hang ups over sex.

I met my IH and was attracted to her personality without knowing she had a Orbis so where does that leave you assumptions?

While I now thoroughly enjoy playing with a trans woman’s cock, I am just as partial to the anatomy of a GG but I find the personality and connectivity with a trans woman to be greater. I see ni delusion in that.

You really didn’t know she had an Orbis?

[Aticus100]

Not sure where the hell predictive text got orbis from but no. I didn’t know she had a penis either.

[MrStealYoGirl]

It just feels so dirty and wrong. It's like a raw, dirty secret attraction.

[dakota87]

That is funny as hell. I’m ROTFLMAO
When I read it I thought it was just a nickname for it I’m going to start calling it that. that I hadn’t heard before. Then tapito references it
Not sure where the hell predictive text got orbis from but no. I didn’t know she had a penis either.

[Torris]

'cause I like butt sex and most GG won't do it.

I like the guaranteed anal and femininity of pretty girls with cocks

Porn drift. GG anal isn’t enough. Tgirl getting fucked with a big hard on. That’s what I need to see

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[blueeyeboy]

Something a about filling a hot ass with dick, and them knowing just how it makes me feel

[MrStealYoGirl]

Do you guys only fuck trans women or do you fuck regular women AND trans?

[handsumjack]

Who need 3 holes ? They are more beautiful than most females, have the ability to enjoy and please oral and anal desires and for me most important the wonderful cocks that delivered their delicious nectar.

[Stavros]

Attraction is universal, and can be found in any combination of humans you can think of. Locking attraction behind invented labels and concepts is a form of social control devised at various times to ensure the survival of the group, to outlaw certain forms of behaviour in the context of politics and/or religion for the benefit of those in power or office. The question in the thread imposes a limit and a distinction where none is needed, as this is not the Roman Catholic Church or Saudi Arabia. You could just as easily ask -why do trans women like men? And get the same volume of answers which all say something different.

[Gillian]

Stavros "The Bonerkiller" ... :D:D:D

[smalltownguy]

Attraction is universal, and can be found in any combination of humans you can think of. Locking attraction behind invented labels and concepts is a form of social control devised at various times to ensure the survival of the group, to outlaw certain forms of behaviour in the context of politics and/or religion for the benefit of those in power or office. The question in the thread imposes a limit and a distinction where none is needed, as this is not the Roman Catholic Church or Saudi Arabia. You could just as easily ask -why do trans women like men? And get the same volume of answers which all say something different.

:iagree: the real question is why trans women like men...indeed :wiggle:

[smalltownguy]

Who need 3 holes ? They are more beautiful than most females, have the ability to enjoy and please oral and anal desires and for me most important the wonderful cocks that delivered their delicious nectar.

absolutely...

[smalltownguy]

Do you guys only fuck trans women or do you fuck regular women AND trans?

well i would only go for trans women...no matter they tend to be more like regular women & totally forget their own women hood

[Tapatio]

Stavros "The Bonerkiller" ... :D:D:D

lol Forsooth!

[Stavros]

Stavros "The Bonerkiller" ... :D:D:D

I hope one day soon to see 'The Boner Revival'...

[Laphroaig]

They have been posted before (it's not as if this is a new topic...;)), but these video's are interesting.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMoEs7eQeZE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=owvoyzAJ9aU

[whamm]

Do you guys only fuck trans women or do you fuck regular women AND trans?

I could never, ever in any conceivable existence, give up pussy. I love transgirl dick, no question. LOVE IT! But I have an equal love of dripping wet girly crotch.

So yeah, definitely both.

[buttslinger]

I don't like repeating myself, HOWEVER, I heard tell that before the Holy Roman Empire, not only was gay sex not a taboo, they didn't even have a name for it. Christianity decided that pretty much all sex was a distraction from the path to God, but obviously procreation has it's place, so gay sex took the hit.
Before that, sex was sex, and you were judged on how you handled it, in the Roman Empire, anyway.
The Greeks??
fuggetaboutit!
I would say personally that the nature of a gorgeous face and a cock sends intense mixed messages to the uptight western male, if Romeo and Juliet existed today, they'd be force-fed Adderall or Klonopin by their psychiatrists. The last place society should stick it's big nose is inbetween two people in love, but I don't really think we're talking about love, I think it's about sex, and thousands of years ago our DNA decided that sex shall override reason, for the survival of the species.
And as I've said here before, I think most of the guys on this site are heterosexuals who see transgender people as crazy sex addicts, because the only place we see them is in porn or as prostitutes. That's how they are depicted, living in that moment that we live in looking at porn. It's not the trans women we like, it's the sex we like. It's our own dicks we like. Our own erections that mess with our logic.
If we were smart we'd be jonesing on the Dow-Jones

[Wendy Summers]

They have been posted before (it's not as if this is a new topic...;)), but these video's are interesting.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMoEs7eQeZE

Hehehe and everytime you post this I mention how awesome their book is. If you haven't read it and have an interest in sexuality or statistics, it's totally worth a read.

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[holzz]

Do you guys only fuck trans women or do you fuck regular women AND trans?

i fuck both.

[morim]

For me it's because T-women are usually "more feminine" than genetic girls.
It may sound strange but in my mind it works this way.

[BatMasterson]

Both are attractive to me but trans women are more interesting from the mystique perspective. And I've had my share of trying to 'relate on a human level' with females. It's not for me. I prefer the 'shallow' draw of mystique and keeping anything female at a manageable distance, psycho-emotionally -- except for the esoteric aspects of the androgyny.

[fred41]

Forms of this question have been asked before and I've given a variety of reasons...but I feel from a personal standpoint, one of the most important reasons for me would be because I found myself incredibly lucky over the years. I've gotten to enjoy the company of some seriously adorable TS ladies and I'm not entirely sure I could draw the same quality in cisgender women. Not in that age bracket anyways.
I can honestly say, that if it wasn't for transgender women, the quality of my life, especially after my divorce, would not have been as good.

[kush kitaro]

Because they make my dick hard

4 yrs ago i had no idea tranny porn existed let alone ever thought about the idea of a chick with a dick

Until a kylie marie solo video was posted on xvideo straight front page

My dick instantly got hard just from the thumbnail & i embarrassingly jacked off to the video in my moms bathroom ive been a tranny admirer ever since

It took me a while to be comfortable with wanting give them blow jobs but im all the way in now

[MrStealYoGirl]

Because they make my dick hard

4 yrs ago i had no idea tranny porn existed let alone ever thought about the idea of a chick with a dick

Until a kylie marie solo video was posted on xvideo straight front page

My dick instantly got hard just from the thumbnail & i embarrassingly jacked off to the video in my moms bathroom ive been a tranny admirer ever since

It took me a while to be comfortable with wanting give them blow jobs but im all the way in now

I've been masturbating on and off to them for 5 years, it's been hard for me to accept it but I just simply love trannies. It's only been this year I've been comfortable with masturbating/looking at their cock, I always blanked it out, but now I'm comfortable with it. I plan on having sex with a TS at some point in future when I feel fully ready/comfortable.

[Good_Guy_Crocodile]

Because I find many trans women physically attractive, some of them incredibly so, and I adore anal sex, both giving an receiving.

I started off by watching straight anal porn occasionally, but it was only after I experienced it in real life that I got really hooked to it.
This was always with me in an active/top role though.

It made me curious about being on the receiving end, but even though I watched some gay porn, I never really found the men to be physically attractive. Especially because I'm a boob-guy and well, guys are severely lacking in boobs (and no, I'm not counting moobs)
I did start experimenting with anal masturbation at this point and found it extremely satisfying (though time consuming :D)

Of course, this led to me discovering transsexual porn, which brought everything together. Gorgeous feminine bodies, perfectly equipped for mutual anal sex.
Since then, I've also had actual sex with a trans woman and it was fantastic. I adored fucking her, but the most intense moment was most definitely when her cock was in my ass.

Now, it's safe to say that my interest in trans women has so far been entirely sexual. However, if I had met the right person at the right time, a relationship with a trans woman would've been possible.
I'm in a monogamous straight relationship now though and very happy. My partner knows about my love off anal sex and it's part of our sex-life (Though not as much as I would want :D )
She doesn't know about my experience with a trans or my interest in trans women, and I don't intend on telling her. However, if she'd ask me about it straight up, I won't lie either.

[DaphneCruz]

Because theyre the best of both worlds. A hot chick with a nice meaty cock. yum.

[LovetheLBs]

Because theyre the best of both worlds. A hot chick with a nice meaty cock. yum.

Summed it up PERFECTLY :iagree:

[TSlover6912]

I like trans women because of the way they look. I've always liked, for lack of a better word, a rougher looking female. That's what first attracted me to trans women, and then I gave my first blow job and I was hooked. I absolutely love sucking cock.

Also, giving a great blow job is extremely empowering. When I can make a gurl cum in my mouth without having her stroke it, that's the best ever.

[dirtrail]

A few reasons
- usually a high sex drive
- just as feminine or more so than some GGs
- usually less bullshit to deal with..as far as hooking up...(Sometimes not always the case)
- no preggers, not any more a benefit for me because I got a vasectomy but at the time it was a plus.
- love anal
- know how to treat a man
- porn drift

Just a few off the top of my head.

[mikelangelo1]

because they have dicks and feminine beauty

[Fitzcarraldo]

I've always been attracted since I learned they existed. Since I got to know one and have paid attention to her and her life, it goes beyond the physical.

I admire the audacity of the act and the level of commitment. These are people who see a different reality about themselves from what the world sees, and decide to assert that reality regardless of the consequences. They are determined to be who they see themselves as rather than who others think they are. It's the hardest thing anyone can do, and it takes a heavy toll on so many. There's an internal struggle going on eternally.

In addition to that admiration, there's a desire to protect.

Ironically, it seems that with many, if you see them the way they want to be seen, because they don't see themselves as being there yet, you will be considered repulsive. And that's just one aspect of the complexity.

[LovinThaTSLadiez]

Because theyre the best of both worlds. A hot chick with a nice meaty cock. yum.

This. I like femininity with a cock.

[gaysian71]

I'm attracted to trans women because the mix of femininity and masculinity. And that's the same reason I also like female bodybuilders. There's just something about the mix that I find extremely beautiful and sexy.

When I was younger and still exploring my sexuality, I enjoyed mixing my own masculine side with my feminine side by crossdressing and having sex with straight men. But as I got older, my desire to have sex with men diminished and now I find myself being only attracted to those who have a mix of femininity and masculinity. Those who are just male, don't really do anything for me anymore. Even genetic women don't do much for me anymore, although I can still find myself attracted to genetic women on occasion.

It's kind of weird how it is with the sexuality and sensuality of humans . But it is what it is and i know what I am.

[BostonBad]

I am also attracted to female bodybuilders. Gg girks that appear fit and more masculine are hot for me. Plus I love when a penis ejaculates down my hatch

[Cereal Escapist]

From a personality perspective, it doesn't matter if the object of my lust has a cock, vag or neo-vag because I only end up being with women who are intellectually and socially my match, those who are very confident and determined but enjoy the obedient role and who are sexually adventurous. That may sound fucked up but I just don't hit on the check-out girl at Walgreens or the office bitch on wheels no matter what they look like and I don't continue to see girls if I realize they are not submissive or if they are sexually prudish.

i like beautiful women that are tall, athletic, have big boobs regardless of whether they are natural or installed (though I am softening on this area somewhat lately as flat in in vogue now), long sexy legs and tight round asses. Great armpits/side boob, defined/toned shoulders, tasteful ink (not too much) and long brunette hair help too in getting my attention. I just don't like petite girls or those with child-birthing hips.

Next, I love ass play. I am very focused on eating and fucking ass as it is my favorite orifice. If you gave me the choice of licking a vag/cock or eating ass, I'm all about the rimjob. Likewise, if you gave me the choice between getting a blowjob, fucking a vag or invading an asshole, I'm parting the brown sea every time. This may stem from the fact that I lost my virginity in my GF's asshole because she was afraid of getting pregnant and had lots of anal with her for a year until she went on the pill. I just love anal sex.

So, ANY woman regardless of genitalia that meets the above criteria for looks and personality will be who I obsess over. I have never felt any kind of way about sucking a transwoman because it just comes with the territory if you are going to date one. Sucking a transwoman off is no different to me that eating out a ggirl or post-op vagina. It's there and waiting for a warm mouth so do what you gotta do, I always say.

Finally for as long as I can remember, before I even knew what a transwoman was, I loved having my ass played with be it with a tongue, a finger, a toy, a fist, a strapon or now that I have discovered transwomen, the real deal. This is not necessarily a deal breaker at all as I don't require that a woman play in my ass but it is a huge bonus when she is willing to do so.

[can_do_it]

This. I like femininity with a cock.

+1000. thats my reason too

[mikelangelo1]

+1000. thats my reason too

mine too

[mrwiseguy]

I have been attracted to trans women for as long as I can remember. When I was 16, I remember reading the odd scandalous tabloid stories about transsexuals, and somehow even then, it was arousing for me.

Why? To be quite honest, that's a bit of a muddle even to me. For one thing, I have also always known that I have latent transsexual tendencies myself. Since early childhood, I never quite knew what to make of that thing between my legs, if I wanted it or not. My parents were nudists, which was a very common thing to be in 1980s Denmark, so from an early age, I was very aware that girls looked quite different down there. And I kind of remember thinking even as a little boy that what girls had down there just seemed so much more tidy than what I had. To be clear, long before I had any actual sexual desires later as a teenager.

I then, perhaps somewhat unlikely, grew up to be an ordinary heterosexual male (some children do outgrow their gender dysphoria), and that was always quite sexually satisfying for me. I have had my fair share of sexual experiences with genetic women, and it really didn't seem so bad anymore having a penis after all. And I am now still content with being that. A man who has sex with women. With his penis. Although still sometimes with the occasional jealous look at what women have down there. I never repressed those feelings to myself, I was always aware of them and just considered them part of my sexual identity. I came close once to confessing to a woman that I shared the bed with for a few weeks, after she kept going on about how she would genuinely much rather have a penis herself. Not the way some women do when they complain that men have it easier. No, she wanted a penis for the sake of having a penis. I didn't tell her my side though, because I was unsure what kind of Pandora's Box that would have opened. Me, confessing this for the first time ever to another person. But I digress.

Maybe my attraction to transsexuals, in contrast to my genetic women-only sexual experiences so far, is a window into that part of my psyche. A part of my psyche that I never quite acted upon. A dark place by some people's standards, but not by my own, where maybe I would have chosen to transition as well. Maybe I envy trans women secretly for the fact that they have gone through with everything. I don't know.

Would I actually have sex with a trans woman? I haven't so far, but with an attractive post-op trans woman, most definitely. With somebody who is pre op between their legs, probably not. I have just never felt in any way attracted to somebody else's penis. Trans person or not. It does nothing for me. It's not gross to me or anything. I'm just not interested. I was a trained paramedic for ten years and had to handle patients' penises after freak accidents, and although that was strictly part of my job of administering much needed emergency help to patients, I always thought, and knew that it would never be arousing for me in my spare time off the job.

As for my own penis, well, it's there, and it's likely to stay. My indifference over that issue has never really gone away 100 percent for as long as I've lived, but it is nothing that I feel I need to change in order to feel truly happy with my body. Still jealous sometimes though at what women have down there. ;)

[Niccolo]

I think part of it is the question of personal identity. We all have to play roles throughout our life, but as the Buddhists would say, those roles are not who we really are. A trans woman has to face up to the question of personal identity and solve it! And not under the easiest circumstances, either.

Plus I saw Kelly Michaels in a video years ago in Amsterdam.

[soupedov]

Subliminal mind control definitely how it started, now i cant explain it but it ruined my life and no matter how hard i try to fight it i always end up losing. 8 months is longest i was able to fight it and it was torture

[palomo7531]

I find it super sexy when a shemale is turned on. I can see it on them when they are turned on and for some reason that really does it for me.

[must93]

It is simple, they look like women and think like men when it comes to sex.

[Nick Danger]

Larry Flynt.

Pretty sure it was sometime during the early 90's that I was flipping through Hustler Magazine and to my GREAT surprise stumbled on a pictorial of a t-girl instead of a genetic girl. It was Olivia Love; how could I forget? Up to that point I had no idea that t-girls even existed - seriously. I knew there were crossdressers, but I wasn't attracted to them because there was always a ton of masculinity lurking under all the makeup and the wigs. But all of a sudden here was a beautiful woman, with beautiful breasts, a feminine face, feminine curves, who also just happened to have a raging boner. Suddenly I realized that I had a raging boner as well. Not for long of course.

After that I started buying transsexual videos at shady porn shops. Lisa Lawrence was always my favorite and she featured in many of the videos I kept well-hidden from my friends and family.

It's always been a secret thing with me, and I've never really questioned it. Why question The Captain? Yes, my dick is named The Captain.

Unfortunately I have only hooked up with two t-girls up to this point in life. Maybe because I'm a bit of a coward, maybe because of geography or my work - but in any case, that's soon to change. I no longer have any illusions about what I want sexually, and it's going to be nothing but t-girls for me from now on. Well okay, I probably won't turn away any GG's but that sounded assertive AF anyway.

[Cereal Escapist]

It is simple, they look like women and think like men when it comes to sex.

so your basis for this information is porn?

[Highlander1963]

Do you guys only fuck trans women or do you fuck regular women AND trans?

I was GG only until I was probably 40. Through the last 10 or so years since then I have mixed and matched if you get my drift. However, over the last 2 years most of my sex has been with trans women and now, having found a trans woman who ticks all my boxes, both sexually and mentally, I wouldn’t care if I never had sex with a GG ever again.

[morim]

A picture is worth a thousand words (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_picture_is_worth_a_thousand_words)

[MrFanti]

I find it super sexy when a shemale is turned on. I can see it on them when they are turned on and for some reason that really does it for me.
When she greets you at the door for a date, there's no hiding her excitement....

[sid]

Larry Flynt.

Pretty sure it was sometime during the early 90's that I was flipping through Hustler Magazine and to my GREAT surprise stumbled on a pictorial of a t-girl instead of a genetic girl. It was Olivia Love; how could I forget? Up to that point I had no idea that t-girls even existed - seriously. I knew there were crossdressers, but I wasn't attracted to them because there was always a ton of masculinity lurking under all the makeup and the wigs. But all of a sudden here was a beautiful woman, with beautiful breasts, a feminine face, feminine curves, who also just happened to have a raging boner. Suddenly I realized that I had a raging boner as well. Not for long of course.

After that I started buying transsexual videos at shady porn shops. Lisa Lawrence was always my favorite and she featured in many of the videos I kept well-hidden from my friends and family.

It's always been a secret thing with me, and I've never really questioned it. Why question The Captain? Yes, my dick is named The Captain.

Unfortunately I have only hooked up with two t-girls up to this point in life. Maybe because I'm a bit of a coward, maybe because of geography or my work - but in any case, that's soon to change. I no longer have any illusions about what I want sexually, and it's going to be nothing but t-girls for me from now on. Well okay, I probably won't turn away any GG's but that sounded assertive AF anyway.

Olivia got me about 15 years ago.. been hooked ever since

[NormallyNorm]

Dumb, obvious, but honest answer: Because so many are so damn pretty. I'm big classic film guy, and for me the peak era of feminine pulchritude was the 60s, with European sex goddesses like Bardot, Claudia Cardinale, Anita Ekberg, Sophia Loren, etc. And the modern girls who most successfully echo that look of hyer-feminity to me happen to be mostly trans girls - Chanel Santini, Bailey Jay, Gizel Rodriguez, Ana Mancini, Jane Marie, etc. But also find myself forever fascinated and turned on by how some of the most feminine girls on earth were seen as guys at one point in their lives.

[Cereal Escapist]

Dumb, obvious, but honest answer: Because so many are so damn pretty. I'm big classic film guy, and for me the peak era of feminine pulchritude was the 60s, with European sex goddesses like Bardot, Claudia Cardinale, Anita Ekberg, Sophia Loren, etc. And the modern girls who most successfully echo that look of hyer-feminity to me happen to be mostly trans girls - Chanel Santini, Bailey Jay, Gizel Rodriguez, Ana Mancini, Jane Marie, etc. But also find myself forever fascinated and turned on by how some of the most feminine girls on earth were seen as guys at one point in their lives.

That is refreshingly honest and somewhat the reason why my one relationship with a post-op girl was ruined but that is a story for another day.

I am not tuned on sexually by the fact that they were once men, but i am turned on mentally because it is damn near inconceivable what some of these women are willing to go through to look how they feel.