Dating a client

[Transtech]

Hey there just something I was thinking about recently. How do you girls feel about going from an escort client relationship to just a relationship. Is this a 100% no go or is this something that just depends. Let's hear your thoughts.

[Ts RedVeX]

99.9% no go

[trish]

It just isn't good business sense. If someone is paying you regularly for services rendered, why would you stop charging them :)

Here's the math:
Suppose a certain business girl has a clientele numbering X people, and suppose that one of those people was actually destined to become the love of her life. If you're one of those X people, then the probability that you'll be the love of her life is 1/X.

Now suppose there are Y business girls and only Z of them will have a client she falls in love with. If you habituate only one girl, then the probability that you will choose one of the Z who will fall for a client is Z/Y. You can increase those chances by habituating more businesses. But if that special one knows you're paying lots of different girls for sex that will probably decrease your chances of becoming her dream lover.

It's all very complicated.

[Nikka]

is not too complicated, you will reduce your income on a 90% , BUT , if you live with him you can have basically everything for free, so a long term relationship (3+ years) can be a good business

is just my opinion

[Aticus100]

Whatever happend to good old fashioned love?

There is some sense in what us been said above and I would certainly agree that the main reason this is unlikely (certainly not impossible) to turn into something long term is that the guy is obviously not looking to do it to a relationship if he is in the process of seeing escorts so that kinda rules him out of the game.

The other harsh reality is that the vast majority of guys using escorts have some very strange notions about them. I have escort friends who have met guys, felt there was a bit of a spark and moved into a tentative relationship only to have the guy give them an ultimatum about stopping the escort work. I've probably seen this 5 or 6 times.

Guys think it's great for escorts to be seeing lots of guys when they are one of the guys, but can't get there head around the fact that it's just business.

[Ts RedVeX]

Dear, oh dear... some people just never grow up, do they?

[trish]

Dear, oh dear... some people just never grow up, do they?Yeah, there was this one client who’d come into my room through the window. In bed he’d could take a girl to the second star on the right and straight on to morning. Wow! But in other ways he was like a child. Always wanting my attention but was never attending. No matter how much he said he was serious, I just couldn’t believe it. After all, he was seeing other girls. I didn’t mind, but there was this one who was just annoying. Skinny little thing always flitting around like a nervous mosquito. I wanted to swat her. So in the end, I moved on. He didn’t.

[Jericho]

Charlie Sheen was *so* right! :dead-1:

[setterman]

Yeah, there was this one client who’d come into my room through the window. In bed he’d could take a girl to the second star on the right and straight on to morning. Wow! But in other ways he was like a child. Always wanting my attention but was never attending. No matter how much he said he was serious, I just couldn’t believe it. After all, he was seeing other girls. I didn’t mind, but there was this one who was just annoying. Skinny little thing always flitting around like a nervous mosquito. I wanted to swat her. So in the end, I moved on. He didn’t.

Now that's funny!

[kmersh]

My gut tells me that "working girls" probably do their best to keep emotional distance from their clients.

Could a "working girl" fall in love with a client, sure, but something tells me it doesn't happen very often.