WHO IS THE T-GIRL, 'YOU REALLY', 'WILL END UP WITH' ?

[peggygee]

As, I read the threads, and the posts, when you ask
the guys, who is the girl they want to be with, they all
tend to say the same thing.

They want, her to be beautiful, or cute face. They want her
to have a nice body, big butt, nice rack, usually small waist,
tend to want average height.

They also generally want them young, race may be
flexible.

And they tend to want her 'hung'. :peanutbutter

Seems like that's what most guys want, at these sites.

Most of them want the same girl, not sure how that will
work out :roll:

So guys, REALISTICALLY, WHO IS THE T-GIRL, 'YOU REALLY
WILL END UP WITH' ?

[BeardedOne]

If I were to ever end up with a gurl she'd have to be wealthy enough to keep me in the style to which I've become accustomed. :D

Of course, it wouldn't hurt if she were packin' too. :wink:

Humor aside, I'm one of those bruised and broken individuals that reached the end of the last round and decided it was best not to play anymore. Since then I've become overrun with pussy (Stray cats) that are far more in need of my attentions and show me more appreciation than I've gotten from the two-legged variety.

Though, on reflection, I never had to climb up on the roof to fetch one of my so-called 'lovers'. :?

[blckhaze]

Dunno. i havent found her yet(either GG or TS). Being 22, i sometimes get caught in the "live for the moment" lifestyle, so looking for love takes a back seat. My ideal partner doesnt have to be a knockout, although that would certainly be welcome. Personality is EXTREMELY key. if i dont click with a person, especially in a relationship, i KNOW it would be hard for me to spend the rest of my life with that person.

[stillies77]

being 22 as well...im just about giving up hope.

[YasminLee]

same here...i just about give up myself...

[arc angel]

what IF she is out there ? what if we meet ? I do hope we meet again......
we all hope to meet that somone but if we all quit not one of us would ever meet that somone. I will not look but i shall wait for her to come to me.
hope is all i have.........

[TheGuard]

It's practically impossible to find that special someone as it is - finding that special t-girl is even more remote.

You need the right mix of beauty (certainly subjective), class (I'm big on how a person carries themselves), intelligence (conversation quickly becomes boring if the to people aren't on the same cognitive level), fun/humor, honesty (with others and oneself), and then the undefinable qualities. I don't have a type - I wouldn't limit myself in that way because you never know where you'll find that person you click with, but I do have deal breakers. I've dated a lot of women (gg) and haven't found what I'm looking for, and I wouldn't date a TG simply because she is a TG or something so trivial as a 'hung rod', I won't compromise myself in that way.

I'm currently a student at a large University, and if there are 20,000 girls here, and possibly 5 - and I feel like I'm being generous there - TG's, then the chances of finding someone feel overwhelmingly slim. - just being realistic. I'm not the escort type of guy, so the idea of dating a transgender person, despite my attraction as a heterosexual man, has been relegated to luck. I'm a confident person, but I'm also honest with myself.

[TheOne1]

..its the girl on the subway with the most beautiful eyes..that you never say a word to..


"But I just think good things will happen, if you are a good person with a good attitude, don't you think?" ~ Sofia VANILLA SKY

[Quinn]

"Success is the child of audacity."

-Benjamin Disraeli

[peggygee]

If I were to ever end up with a gurl she'd have to be wealthy enough to keep me in the style to which I've become accustomed. :D

Of course, it wouldn't hurt if she were packin' too. :wink:

Humor aside, I'm one of those bruised and broken individuals that reached the end of the last round and decided it was best not to play anymore. Since then I've become overrun with pussy (Stray cats) that are far more in need of my attentions and show me more appreciation than I've gotten from the two-legged variety.

Though, on reflection, I never had to climb up on the roof to fetch one of my so-called 'lovers'. :?


For me, an intelligent guy, funny, sweet, good character, emotionally stable, literally and figuratively makes me moist. And giddy as a school girl. :oops:

For 'me' it's not all about his money or his looks.

I can't be with Willie the wino, or Craig the crackhead, but somewhere in between

[peggygee]

same here...i just about give up myself...

YasminLee, for you Sistergirl, it is not a matter of 'if' for you, but a matter of when.

From what I know of you, you are a very sweet ,smart, and I can see very attractive woman.

How do 'I', know all this about 'you'.?

When ya get old you know shit :)

[suckseed]

Yasmin, Peggy, Arianna, any other women that want to say....what tends to be the biggest deal breakers? I'd really like to know.
I'm guilty of being superficial in terms of my fantasies. I usually date pretty women, but I have this desire still to experience being with someone that floors me with her looks and personality. When I was traveling in a rock band, I had the gift of gab and a friendly way of hanging out with women without being cheesy about trying to get in their pants, and I felt like I could go up to any woman I wanted, and would usually hit it off. Now, I'm out of that situation, and it just seems as though I've lost my stride. When I meet a girl I like, I either start thinking about how I'm not ready, don't have enough to offer, or am not even very sure I want to get involved w/ anybody yet. But that's bullshit really, because I'm not even trying. I'm smart enough not to base too much on looks in real life, but I fantasize about the most amazing women I see online. People don't tend to talk about it, but imagine being in love with someone who you think is gorgeous inside and out. And them feeling the same way. + + + Okay, now mixing in a bit of reality, we usually end up being with somebody who's not a model, but if we fall in love with them, they're completely attractive - sometimes because of their less than perfect features.
I have a point. It is this: As somebody who got restless in a marriage,
I am interested in eventually finding a partner that I can enjoy being with over time. I think the most important thing, ultimately for me anyway, is if we communicate well. I want to be interested in what she has to say. I declined a second night o' love a couple of weeks ago, because we went out and she didn't have anything to say. When you never run out of things to talk about, you know it was a good date.
Last thing: I live in a town of about half a million. I've never met any transexuals. My roomate tells me there are a lot of FTM's around her lesbian hangouts - I got psyched about 'Tranny Night' at a bike shop, then found out they were all FTM's. I've had women with hairy backs wearing wife beaters at my work. That was kind of an adjustment. But, anyway, I've not seen any. I'm sure they're around, but it's not something I'm thinking about really. Seems pretty unlikely though. Would I do it? I couldn't handle a sex worker. I'm not into sharing! But a regular TS in stealth mode? I'd really want to see how it would be. Do you women out there notice whether you tend to 'think like guys?' What I mean is, I usually have a best guy friend that's really fun and knowledgeable, so it's always interesting to hang out with him. The women I've dated the last few years always seem that way in the beginning, but then start to drive me crazy with their mood swings. I say, don't dwell on yourself. at least on the stuff that's not so great about your life. Get into what's out there, whether it's music or art or jetskiing. It seems like so many women are depressed.
Do transwomen get to avoid all those moodswings, or are you guys laughing at me now? :lol: To be with a woman who had all the best parts of the gender with less of the not so great traits....well, sign me up!

[scorpion]

Hard to give a god answer on this question...
But I think the brasilian tranny Sol is very close to my dreams...
But I would bee glad if she could stand out whit mee and accept that Im away from home long periods.
That have been the bigest problem in my earlier relations.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

It doesn't matter IMO. You are correct in your assumption based on replies on this board that several of the members (myself included) desire a woman to have a particular "thing" going for them in order for them to be selected, but the joke is that 9 times out of 10 many of these guys would never be selected by many of the "girls". From what I see locally the girls prefer to be involved with someone who is completely away from the scene that we see as pleasure yet many of them see it as pick-up clientele spot

[TheGuard]

doubled edged sword man.

[dan_drade]

OK, I gotta put my two cents in here. To be honest, I think we all want to fantasize about having the perfect girl. But in reality, you really have no choice abut the looks of the one that you have the most feelings about. I have dated many girls, both gg's and tg's and out of all of them there was only one that I really fell in love with. I thought she was pretty. However, she was not a girl that most guys on this site would consider beautiful and sexy. She was tall and had an average build. She did not have big breasts and she was not on hormones for very long when I met her. She was not well hung, just average. In fact overall she was a very average looking transexual woman.

That being said, there was just something about her that had me head over heels for her. she was very intelligent with multiple college degrees and she was really easy to get along with. Thats not to say that she was just very submissive and willing to do whatever I asked of her. On the contrary, she was very opionated and had a mind of her own. But she was just a great person to talk with and have fun with. Many nights we would just sit and talk for hours. And she was also very sweet, kind and thoughtfull, and when you meet a woman like that, you just can't help but to return the kindness.

So, in closing, its not the looks of the girl, but the way that two people seem to connect. That may sound kind of corny, but I had never met anyone like that before her or after her. I am hoping to oneday meet another woman like her though.

[RangeHova]

I'm seeing a girl now that has real potential but I'm not one to jump the gun. I like to take my time. I have found that to be a good way to go about things when you are getting with a girl and want more than sex, too many of us (guys and girls) are way too quick to hit the sack.

We are at two months now and have only gone as far as me kissing on her breast.

It is funny how some girls (especially t-girls) will actually have issues with me taking my time sexually.

Back to the question at hand. Looks are important to a degree, I can't see me opening up intially to someone who doesn't physically attract me. I think the more that you really get into that person looks become less important. I need a great mix of intelligence, ambition, humor, fun, craetivity, understanding and flexibility.

I think chemically all of things are important but the degree of how much I need each of those things depend on the woman and the vibe that I have with that woman.

I hope to settle down with a t-girl. My dream girl is one that yeah is fine and who puts it down in the bed. More than anything I want her to be loyal, honest, communicative. and a best friend that unselfish and has my back.

[Trogdor]

same here...i just about give up myself...
:idea:

*takes a deep breathe and stands up*

Hi, Yasmin. :D

[stillies77]

i wish allanah starr or yasmine lee but those are just stars i will never reach sniff.

[filyapanties4me]

WHEN IT COMES TO THAT DOWN TO EARTH SHEMALE ROMANCE, MY BABYGURL HERE I THINK WOULD BE FLAVA TO BE IN A LTR WITH...AND A SERIOUS TREAT TO SEE WALKIN AROUND THE HOUSE IN HER TEE-SHIRT AND PANTIES!!!

[johnb]

wow washDC, nice pic of babydoll. where was that taken? got any more?

[DJ_Asia]

being 22 as well...im just about giving up hope.

Look

I have been into t-girls forever and a day.My "ex files" contains alot of porn girls,non porn girls,latina,white,black,asian...you name it...And pretty much that whole list is filled with a bunch of girls who didnt know what they wanted (even though they rhought they did) .
I too had stopped looking cuz I thought that it wasnt even worth the bother. I had fun with some of my models and pretty much left it at that...

Then one day....WHAM! Like outta the blue the kindest sweetest most caring,sensitive, understanding girl came into my life...oh and shes pretty hot too.

Man im 41,and although I workout and take care of myself and dont look my age,nonetheless Im 41 and I just found her within the last year.

Dont give up...shes out there,and you might have your heart broken a couple dozen times before you do,but she's out there.

DJ Asia

[SamAdams]

I don't think I ever would end up with a t-girl. I've only ever had relationships with real girls and never a t-girl. I've only been with t-girl escorts.

I view being with a t-girl as sexual exploration, I love the way a woman looks and always wanted to try a t-girl but didn't know how to meet one. So found an escort and found that I really enjoyed t-girls as an alternative sexual experience. Keeps things exciting.

So I'm mostly with real girls, but every now and then when I'm looking for some variety, I'll pay for a t-girl.

I think it's because, I do want to have kids of my own someday and of course you need a real girl for that.

My ultimate real girl is one that has a great personality and would be my best friend, she has an attractive face and body (doesn't have to be model like), but real kinky and open to sexual exploring... anal sex on her, strap on sex on me, mutual rimming (though I've never had a t-girl do that for me, only real girls, strange) and loves to give and receive oral (sometimes licking her pussy and perhaps of her and a strap on) and whatever else.

[ezed]

Don't know. Don't know if it will happen. GG's and more and more T-girls want you to be what they want you to be. I don't do that no more. I am what I am. If a person doesn't like that, so be it. It wasn't meant to be. Move on up the aisle... no hard feelings. Just enjoy the person for who they are, if you want. If not, do not try to mold them using treats as an incentive. Just go with the flow, and don't get so serious over nothing.

[AllanahStarrNYC]

I think so many men get so caught up in the superficial aspects of a woman that they often forget to scratch the exterior and see what is underneath. Sure you can find an attractive partner or a stunning one- just make sure that they have the personality to match, otherwise you will forget the beauty quickly.

A relationship will happen to you when you least expect it- or when you are not even looking for it. The last thing I planned for this year was to be in a relationship or fall in love. I was dead set against it and just focused on me and then the unexpected happened.

So it's not about giving up. It's about loving yourself when you are single and working on you and not being desperate to find someone to love you because that has to happen naturallly.

[hondarobot]

I think so many men get so caught up in the superficial aspects of a woman that they often forget to scratch the exterior and see what is underneath. Sure you can find an attractive partner or a stunning one- just make sure that they have the personality to match, otherwise you will forget the beauty quickly.

A relationship will happen to you when you least expect it- or when you are not even looking for it. The last thing I planned for this year was to be in a relationship or fall in love. I was dead set against it and just focused on me and then the unexpected happened.

So it's not about giving up. It's about loving yourself when you are single and working on you and not being desperate to find someone to love you because that has to happen naturallly.

Well said, Allanah. A guy shouldn't fall in love with a fantasy, and there's nothing wrong with a girl being a fantasy.

Personally (and I realize this post has nothing to do with me), I will ask Blondie to marry me someday.

I'll probably get knocked on my ass.

I'm gonna do it anyways. I think she loves me as much as I love her. She just doesn't like to talk about it.

All she's gotta do is, if she thinks I'm a loser jerk, is say "no".

8)

[peggygee]

So how has your quest gone since we last spoke?
Have you found Ms. Right yet, or are you still
kicking it with Ms. Right Now? :?
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/love2x2.jpg

[arc angel]

As i now look back on yrs of heartache and sorrow i find myself looking no more. no more partys and trips to the big citys , content i shall forever be alone ,look nomore for what was shall never be, and alone i shall be.
I GIVIN, TO THE TRUTH.....

[callahac]

As long as she is pretty and has a dick and she never wants to get rid of it, I will be happy.

[peggygee]

I think so many men get so caught up in the superficial aspects of a woman that they often forget to scratch the exterior and see what is underneath. Sure you can find an attractive partner or a stunning one- just make sure that they have the personality to match, otherwise you will forget the beauty quickly.

A relationship will happen to you when you least expect it- or when you are not even looking for it. The last thing I planned for this year was to be in a relationship or fall in love. I was dead set against it and just focused on me and then the unexpected happened.

So it's not about giving up. It's about loving yourself when you are single and working on you and not being desperate to find someone to love you because that has to happen naturallly





being 22 as well...im just about giving up hope.lol - Sweetheart, you are on a board with dozens of middle-aged men who are absolutely clueless about girls; nevermind TS. Have you ever heard the saying 'you can't teach an old new tricks'? Well, that's who a fair amount of your competition around here is: jaded OLD DOGS! But you're a fairly young guy, so don't give up so easily.


As i now look back on yrs of heartache and sorrow i find myself looking no more. no more partys and trips to the big citys , content i shall forever be alone ,look nomore for what was shall never be, and alone i shall be.
I GIVIN, TO THE TRUTH.....

Love is a fire .
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/Feuer67.gif

But whether it is going to warm your heart,
or burn down your house, you can never tell.

And much like fire, it often is not easily controlled,
and may strike when and where you least expect.

[Fox]

I don't know who I'll end up with. But I do know I won't limit my options, especially based on physical appearance. I've found over the span of my short 22 years that girls you once thought were "meh" and turned out to have a kickass personality start becoming beautiful to you. And the reverse is true.

My girl just has to be open-minded, have a sense of humor and have a higher IQ than a rock.

EDIT: I meant women in general, not just TS.

[arc angel]

being 22 as well...im just about giving up hope.lol - Have you ever heard the saying 'you can't teach an old new tricks'? Well, that's who a fair amount of your competition around here is: jaded OLD DOGS! But you're a fairly young guy, so don't give up so easily.

[arc angel]

Quit now . SAVE YOURSELF !!!!!

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

tough topic................

[hwbs]

hmmmm ill have to goto the fortune teller machine like in the movie "BIG" :popcorn

[Trogdor]

Probably won't happen till I move out of this toilet we call the midwest. :P

[Somedude21]

I dunno. I'm 20, I've been looking for love all my life, and I'm beginning to wonder if that addage about needing to look for love instead of having it come to you is an outright lie. I dunno whether to give up hope, or to keep on looking.

And yeah, the Midwest is a toilet for the most part. :P

[Trogdor]

I dunno. I'm 20, I've been looking for love all my life, and I'm beginning to wonder if that addage about needing to look for love instead of having it come to you is an outright lie. I dunno whether to give up hope, or to keep on looking.

And yeah, the Midwest is a toilet for the most part. :P

And Michigan's the rockhard, parasite, 6 year old putrid fecal sludge from a slob's bowels in that toilet. :P