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luvzbig1s
07-20-2017, 08:22 PM
I have always been over-sexed and would at anytime if some man or women wants sex with me I would do it in a heartbeat no matter when and where. So I assumed that Transsexuals would be more over-sexed Which mean they would want to have as much sex as possible. Am I wrong? If I happen to meet or anyone else would happen to meet one would the Transsexual be more willing to have sex with them? I mean if they were some what attracted to them ? Just a simple question well actually 3 .

Laphroaig
07-20-2017, 08:29 PM
I have always been over-sexed and would at anytime if some man or women wants sex with me I would do it in a heartbeat no matter when and where. So I assumed that Transsexuals would be more over-sexed Which mean they would want to have as much sex as possible. Am I wrong? If I happen to meet or anyone else would happen to meet one would the Transsexual be more willing to have sex with them? I mean if they were some what attracted to them ? Just a simple question well actually 3 .

So basically you assume all t-girls are easy, always gagging for it and will shag anyone who asks them. Seriously, WTF?:banghead:banghead

Ever considered that they are HUMAN BEINGS, just like everyone else, not just sex objects?:shrug

Quinfeldt
07-20-2017, 08:38 PM
Sex workers, regardless of gender orientation and/or preference of partner(s), will always be perceived as oversexed. A simple answer to your question would be "It al depends on how you are perceived by your actions. Talk like like a dick, you are a dick, show respect for yourself and respect will be given back. If not, tough shit. That's life...

luvzbig1s
07-20-2017, 09:02 PM
So basically you assume all t-girls are easy, always gagging for it and will shag anyone who asks them. Seriously, WTF?:banghead:banghead

Ever considered that they are HUMAN BEINGS, just like everyone else, not just sex objects?:shrug
Sounds like I hit a nerve with you over my question A simple respectful reply would have sufficed But I will be sure to remember you and am eagerly awaiting one of your questions

Laphroaig
07-20-2017, 10:06 PM
Sounds like I hit a nerve with you over my question A simple respectful reply would have sufficed But I will be sure to remember you and am eagerly awaiting one of your questions

Try reading your opening post back again. It's unbelievably disrespectful towards T-girls and fully deserving of the answer you got from me...

holzz
07-20-2017, 10:29 PM
No, they are not.

It's true that trans women are sexualised, but only because they have had to do sex work because there was (or still is) less scope for a "normal" job. That's changing though, with more acceptance, and there are many trans women who are not sex-workers. Some trans women even detest sex workers, since they think it distorts what being trans is all about. As a cis man, it's not my place to comment on that. But then it's understandable why they think that way, I can empathise. However, it's because of past discrimination why many trans women were escorts, strippers, erotic masseuses or porn stars.

Trans people, whether men and women, are people like us cis men and women. I'm no doctor, but I see no evidence that being trans inherently makes one more sexual, or enchances sexual appetite. It's just about that being raised in a country that is transphobic relates to no "normal" job, so thus being an escort or porn star. It's AS bad now, but 10/20 years ago, certainly yes.

luvzbig1s
07-21-2017, 02:01 AM
Try reading your opening post back again. It's unbelievably disrespectful towards T-girls and fully deserving of the answer you got from me...

No actually if you take a look at the two other responses you will see the proper way to answer my question and get your point across. Both have explained why my assumption was and is wrong with out going off the wall. But I will not longer respond to you as to not cause problems on this forum Have a nice day

GinaValentine
07-21-2017, 03:13 PM
I have always been over-sexed and would at anytime if some man or women wants sex with me I would do it in a heartbeat no matter when and where. So I assumed that Transsexuals would be more over-sexed Which mean they would want to have as much sex as possible. Am I wrong? If I happen to meet or anyone else would happen to meet one would the Transsexual be more willing to have sex with them? I mean if they were some what attracted to them ? Just a simple question well actually 3 .

In MY experience, Yes. I, for one, have ALWAYS been promiscuous!;)And I know a LOT of crossdressers and T-girls who are. For that matter, I've generally found that gay people seem to both have more sex and more partners than straight people. Of course it's ALWAYS dependent upon the individual person and the relationships they are in, but I think that people who are into the kinkier side of life will always be considered oversexed, because they're often having more sex! Just...not me...at the moment...):LOL!

luvzbig1s
07-22-2017, 01:47 AM
In MY experience, Yes. I, for one, have ALWAYS been promiscuous!;)And I know a LOT of crossdressers and T-girls who are. For that matter, I've generally found that gay people seem to both have more sex and more partners than straight people. Of course it's ALWAYS dependent upon the individual person and the relationships they are in, but I think that people who are into the kinkier side of life will always be considered oversexed, because they're often having more sex! Just...not me...at the moment...):LOL!

I was wondering but if someone did work in the sex industry would they next have to be over-sexed., I mean I would have to believe that being a sex performer would not be for someone with a normal sex drive

MrFanti
07-22-2017, 02:22 AM
In MY experience, Yes. I, for one, have ALWAYS been promiscuous!;)And I know a LOT of crossdressers and T-girls who are. For that matter, I've generally found that gay people seem to both have more sex and more partners than straight people. Of course it's ALWAYS dependent upon the individual person and the relationships they are in, but I think that people who are into the kinkier side of life will always be considered oversexed, because they're often having more sex! Just...not me...at the moment...):LOL!

Nice to have a woman's perspective here.....As that is really what matters.

holzz
07-22-2017, 07:20 AM
i have to agree laphroig, even if he "hates" me (like i care..) i think this question is offensive.

I don't see how any group of people is only good enough for your cock to put in. Or for them to top you....

You may have trans neighbours. Or co-workers. Or people in the street you see may be trans too, you would have no way of knowing.

Laphroaig
07-22-2017, 08:21 AM
Nice to have a woman's perspective here.....As that is really what matters.

It is, but the trouble is that we're on a porn board and are always likely to get a skewed representation. The OP's assumptions have obviously come from overindulging in porn and there's an old saying, that "assumptions make an ass out of you." Someone like Christian would be better placed to comment, but porn sex isn't like real life sex and while some will undoubtedly enjoy their work, its primary function is to get the viewer off, not the participants.

Some TS will get into the sex industry (porn, webcamming, escorting) due to a high sex drive. However, far more do so due to limited opportunities in their country, as a means to fund surgery or simply to set themselves up for a better future. A number of escorts have told me their plans for surgery or to save the cash to set up a business, etc.

As holzz says many TS also go about their daily lives totally invisible to everyone and as he hints, finding us in agreement over something is a rarity...

Stereotypical assumptions like the OP has made are stupid and can be detrimental to the way the community is viewed.

MrFanti
07-22-2017, 12:05 PM
It is, but the trouble is that we're on a porn board and are always likely to get a skewed representation. .

Which is EXACTLY why I held back on responding until at least one woman's perspective was stated...The question is of a type that only a woman can answer properly....