Is it bad that I went to the backpages to lose my virginity?

[Ryan259]

At the time i was 21 (23 now) and still a virgin I like girls and shemales I really never had any luck getting with girls ever and one day I went on backpages and met up with a shemale the experience was great a year later though I finally had sex with a girl but it wasn't as good because she sucked it was like fucking a dead fish lol she didn't do anything was just boring lol but is it bad I lost my virginity by paying for it?

[whamm]

I don't know if it's bad or not, but I did, too. Many decades ago.

I was always so insecure about having a small member that I passed up many opportunities. Now I'm older and my attitude is "it is what it is." Lots of fish in the sea.

Don't beat yourself up.

Regarding a partner who's passive, my advice is to talk, talk, talk.

[blackchubby38]

Its not bad. I did the same thing when I turned eighteen 25 years ago. I found the woman through Screw magazine. I would say that guys losing their virginity to a hooker or escort is more common than you may think.

[nysprod]

It's all good just have fun with it

[SXFX]

A good lay can really fuck up a man...

[sockratees]

Don't sweat it dude.


I would say that guys losing their virginity to a hooker or escort is more common than you may think.

Indeed.

[holzz]

you'll be surprised. it may seem sad to many, but then i bet a lot do it, just don't say it out of fear of being mocked.

[Billy Blueballs]

Not a bad way to lose your innocence at all. After all they're a professional. Out of curiosity did you tell her it was your first time?
The only downside is that if you get a quality working girl who knows her trade (which it sounds like you did), yes it might make some subsequent encounters underwhelming by comparison, but rest assured with more experience you will find that sexual partners vary, paid or unpaid, GG or TS. You certainly aren't the first person to lose your virginity by paying for it, and you sure as hell won't be the last. Relax and enjoy the memory.

[tacocorpv2]

Heh, If I look back I rather wish I paid for it back then, my first time was also one of the worst. :D

[african1]

Ryan, don't worry about it bro.
Whether with time, money or gifts, you are always paying for sex.

[lordworm]

Men always pay for sex. Nature is prostitution.

[parts25]

Pussy is pussy whether you pay or not. As long as you had a good time it's all good. Variety is good especially when you're young.

[Ryan259]

Not a bad way to lose your innocence at all. After all they're a professional. Out of curiosity did you tell her it was your first time?
The only downside is that if you get a quality working girl who knows her trade (which it sounds like you did), yes it might make some subsequent encounters underwhelming by comparison, but rest assured with more experience you will find that sexual partners vary, paid or unpaid, GG or TS. You certainly aren't the first person to lose your virginity by paying for it, and you sure as hell won't be the last. Relax and enjoy the memory.

She wasn't to good she actually rushed me lol ever since then I've learned to do reviews and everything before I do anything lol but I did enjoy it lol

[IluvemHung]

Did the ashemale fuck you in the ass ? If not your still a virgin!

[whamm]

Did the ashemale fuck you in the ass ? If not your still a virgin!

I'm guessing you're not! ;)

[nysprod]

Men always pay for sex. Nature is prostitution.

Absolutely, there is no such thing as a free woman.

[Ryan259]

Thanks everybody felt like shit and was dwelling on it for the longest but now I know it's not a big deal lol

[tacocorpv2]

Absolutely, there is no such thing as a free woman.

One nighters from nightclubs!!! Usual cost if all goes according to the plan is the taxi money for her in the morning (or after the deed) :D

[CoolAwesomeBXDude]

Nope.

I went to backpage after being 3 years celibate