Why people are so afriad of being labeled gay?

[transsexualover]

Gay or not gay - who cares. If you consider yourself straight guy and you like tgirls so be it. If you consider yourself a homosexual guy and you like tgirls so be it too. Its just a label. What common does it have with feelings and attractions?

[Lester316]

Sadly despite labels being a waste of time in my book (people should be able to be whomever they want to be/are); many people come from or live in places where views aren't very progressive. You say 'who cares' - the exact problem is that some folk care about labels in utterly the wrong way and will make the lives of others positively miserable just because they don't agree with their values, ideology or beliefs. That's why some people are so afraid - they have a genuine reason to be.

[lordworm]

Because it is seen as weakness in the eyes of females. And most trans too, don't kid yourself.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Way to simplify things.

[transsexualover]

Because it is seen as weakness in the eyes of females. And most trans too, don't kid yourself.

weakness? are you kidding me? someone's sexuality is just a label. its not a weakness ffs. what happens in bed - stays in bed

[SanDiegoPervySage]

weakness? are you kidding me? someone's sexuality is just a label. its not a weakness ffs. what happens in bed - stays in bed

Thing is, not everyone thinks the way you do. That's not gonna stop anyone else from seeing it a different way or treating someone differently because of it. What's happens in bed stays in bed? Uhhh.....not how that works. Again, not everyone thinks like you

[Laphroaig]

Gay or not gay - who cares. If you consider yourself straight guy and you like tgirls so be it. If you consider yourself a homosexual guy and you like tgirls so be it too. Its just a label. What common does it have with feelings and attractions?

You must care to some extent otherwise why start this thread, on a topic that's been done to death on here many times previously?:boring:deadhorse

[tacocorpv2]

Mislabeling is not cool, but who cares.. not like words can physically hurt you anyway.

[transsexualover]

Thing is, not everyone thinks the way you do. That's not gonna stop anyone else from seeing it a different way or treating someone differently because of it. What's happens in bed stays in bed? Uhhh.....not how that works. Again, not everyone thinks like you

well, it exactly works that way. what happens in bed - stays in bed. If thats between two healthy adults by mutual agreement and desire then whould it bother anyone? It doesnt have an influence or impact on regular life.

[DeezNuts515]

well, it exactly works that way. what happens in bed - stays in bed. If thats between two healthy adults by mutual agreement and desire then whould it bother anyone? It doesnt have an influence or impact on regular life.

Yeah, and black people in the U.S. have nothing to worry about from the police, right? Come on, man.

And please change your avatar.

[Ben in LA]

Have you seen how gays are marginalized in the world?

[Lester316]

well, it exactly works that way. what happens in bed - stays in bed. If thats between two healthy adults by mutual agreement and desire then whould it bother anyone? It doesnt have an influence or impact on regular life.

You are either deliberately trying to provoke reactions by pretending to be misinformed or you have your head buried so far in the sand it's a wonder you even knew how to join a forum and use the internet. Seriously pay attention to just a little of what goes on in the world and you will realise that Human history (and the current day) is littered with examples of how people are persecuted, bullied and marginalised just because they are 'different'.

[Laphroaig]

Yeah, and black people in the U.S. have nothing to worry about from the police, right? Come on, man.

And please change your avatar.

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You are either deliberately trying to provoke reactions by pretending to be misinformed or you have your head buried so far in the sand it's a wonder you even knew how to join a forum and use the internet. Seriously pay attention to just a little of what goes on in the world and you will realise that Human history (and the current day) is littered with examples of how people are persecuted, bullied and marginalised just because they are 'different'.

The OP is an idiot and probably so far in the closet that he's in Narnia. Those who start threads on this kind of subject usually are (both)...:whistle:

[SanDiegoPervySage]

well, it exactly works that way. what happens in bed - stays in bed. If thats between two healthy adults by mutual agreement and desire then whould it bother anyone? It doesnt have an influence or impact on regular life.

Key word, "if". Not everyone keeps their sex stories between each other. And ask the people who have a problem with it, not the ones that don't.