Serious Question!

[thebusiness]

Guys...how many times have you had sex with a TS and you didn't have to pay for it...if a lot of you have only experienced TS's through payment then something is really wrong with that... I'm just asking this question after reading in almost every post on this site "How much does she charge!"

Are TS's really that rare or really that unapproachable that us guys have to pay them to have sex?

There are a lot of GG's that you have to pay to be with but there is a lot more that you don't... I was just wondering was it the same for TS's! I think that's why its more of a fantasy to be with a TS than a reality!

[Phat]

not all TS are prostitutes...

[thebusiness]

Oh... no doubt... I know not all TS's are selling sex... but dude it just seems that way to me sometimes... I mean for example... to be with someone who looks like Danielle Fox you seem to have to pay a price...

I consider myself lucky to be with who I'm with and to never have had to pay for sex... but after reading most of the shit on this site and yahoo groups and many other forums it just seems like TS's are a gassed up fantasy... I mean I don't see any TS relationship discussion boards anywhere that don't have porn or escort questions every other five post... I just think its a serious problem... where's the real love at?

[BeardedOne]

My only qualifier is that I'm not looking for a 'relationship' because I've been so bloodied by decades of bad experience (99% GG). I'm one of the guys that pays for the woman to leave after the party, not for the actual shenanigans that ensue at the event itself. It simplifies my life.

[deebo]

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[InHouston]

Guys...how many times have you had sex with a TS and you didn't have to pay for it...if a lot of you have only experienced TS's through payment then something is really wrong with that... I'm just asking this question after reading in almost every post on this site "How much does she charge!"

Are TS's really that rare or really that unapproachable that us guys have to pay them to have sex?

There are a lot of GG's that you have to pay to be with but there is a lot more that you don't... I was just wondering was it the same for TS's! I think that's why its more of a fantasy to be with a TS than a reality!

I've paid for all of them. What is so wrong with that? I'm a heterosexual male and can't afford to be indiscreet around town with shemales. I could very well run into someone I know ... like my girlfriend who would shit an eggroll.

That's is a very common reason why many TS lovers seek professional companionship.

[thebusiness]

Ok...before this turns into a post where people think I'm bashing or hating on escorts or there "clients" don't think that I am. I'm pretty sure there are good reasons... I'm just saying do you really have to pay for every experience? And not to hate on you bro... but why have a girl and pay for sex on the side? That's one of the reasons TS's don't trust relationships because they've met so many dudes that are married and have girlfriends already that come see them! And I'm just saying from my own experience that 90% of TS's I've met do it and I didn't see a problem until I was like damn...where are the TS's that you can have a relationship with or date? Even when your on a dating forum most of the TS's who look good and nice are escorts! I'm just saying I find that to be a problem for the guys who actually want to be serious with TS girls! I'm in a position where I can't be seen as "homosexual" too but unless someone has pics of my girl naked I don't give a fuck what they think cause only people close to her know... she looks like any other GG so I don't really have that problem...

[Perverted Monk]

Guys...how many times have you had sex with a TS and you didn't have to pay for it...if a lot of you have only experienced TS's through payment then something is really wrong with that... I'm just asking this question after reading in almost every post on this site "How much does she charge!"

Are TS's really that rare or really that unapproachable that us guys have to pay them to have sex?

There are a lot of GG's that you have to pay to be with but there is a lot more that you don't... I was just wondering was it the same for TS's! I think that's why its more of a fantasy to be with a TS than a reality!

I've paid for all of them. What is so wrong with that? I'm a heterosexual male and can't afford to be indiscreet around town with shemales. I could very well run into someone I know ... like my girlfriend who would shit an eggroll.

That's is a very common reason why many TS lovers seek professional companionship.


Thats some truth for that ass

[bxguy34]

I've had girls that I've saw regularly throw me a freebee every now and then.

I used to see Lisa Kage regularly, (this was quite a few years ago) One night I was with her and she straight out told me that I no longer had to pay to see her and that I could see her more often (since I coule only afford to see her maybe once or twice a month). I was really shocked when she said it, didn't know what to make of it to be honest. I don't know if she was asking me to be her bf or anything, she never used that word, but I got so scared at the thought of getting into a relationship that I never called her or saw her again. It really sucked because I had the best sex of my life with her, plus she was so much fun to be with. I just enjoyed the fact that I could pay and that was all, thought of a relationship scared me off I guess.

BTW, does anyone know what she is up to these days?

[Quinn]

I’ve never paid for sex with a TS and doubt that I ever will. For me, both my chosen vocation and an agreement with my wife strongly militate against such considerations. Fortunately, here in NYC there exists a fairly substantial population of TS women not involved in escorting or the scene in general.

-Quinn

[zookeeper]

As the great philosopher Charlie Sheen said: "You're not paying them for sex, you're paying them to leave."

[BeardedOne]

Hey, Biz, no hate on you, guy. I saw it as a legitimate question and answered it as such.

I see a lot of guys on here that equate wanting/having to pay as being =NEEDING= to pay. Sometimes it isn't that way. I've known some TS's in the past and had some minor daliances with them, but never any LTR. It is only recently that I have visited with escorts and it's more of an emotional (Or lack thereof) need than anything sexual. Shit, I had one GG humping my leg for almost a year before I (Figuratively) had to beat her with a stick to leave me the fuck alone. I just wasn't in tune to it.

I mean, really, girls/gurls blow off guys all the time (I just washed my hair, I have a headache, I'm on the rag, my dog is sick, etc.), can't we have the same outs?

As for the "Am I a fag" routine (In my eyes or others), I don't give a rat's ass. There's a bunch of yahoos that wanted (And may still have this perverted desire) to make me the governor of the state. Yet I still post pictures of my bare ass (It never seemed to hurt Arnold's political aspirations) in random forums and say "Fuck" more times than might be deemed necessary.

I would =LOVE= to have a fine-assed T-gurl on my arm at public functions/venues and have never shyed at introducing 'differently gendered' people to my friends (I dated a gorgeous intersexed boi for a while). Will I find a non-commercial gurl in my lifetime? Eh. Who knows? Miracles happen, look at the Red Sox. :lol:

So, I , for one, am genuinely interested in the responses to your thread.

[specialk]

Ok...before this turns into a post where people think I'm bashing or hating on escorts or there "clients" don't think that I am. I'm pretty sure there are good reasons... I'm just saying do you really have to pay for every experience? And not to hate on you bro... but why have a girl and pay for sex on the side? That's one of the reasons TS's don't trust relationships because they've met so many dudes that are married and have girlfriends already that come see them! And I'm just saying from my own experience that 90% of TS's I've met do it and I didn't see a problem until I was like damn...where are the TS's that you can have a relationship with or date? Even when your on a dating forum most of the TS's who look good and nice are escorts! I'm just saying I find that to be a problem for the guys who actually want to be serious with TS girls! I'm in a position where I can't be seen as "homosexual" too but unless someone has pics of my girl naked I don't give a fuck what they think cause only people close to her know... she looks like any other GG so I don't really have that problem...

I've had mini relationships with 2 TS. Met both of them through a chat room. The only problem, in both cases was Distance!. Neither were escorts, and I don't have a problem with escorts, as they serve a role that suits certain situations. There are online dating services if you google around, some are bogus, some are ligit. There are a few TG's on Match.com.........but since the number of TS is a small % of population, finding one within 10 miles of your doorstep are still pretty slim.

[Agincourt]

I think much depends upon where you live. The quantity of what you desire in close proximity. I live in Los Angeles, where there is a huge TG community. As an example, I had a relationship with a gurl that I met at the local liquor store / convenient mart. She lived a block away from me. I can go out on any weekend night and come in contact with many transgender individuals. Hollywood, Silverlake, Long Beach, all have sizeable TG populations. All I'm saying is, in some areas your going to come in contact with more gurls than in others, so, your chances of meeting them in other than call girl situations is bound to be better. The rest is up to you. But don't pack your bags yet guys. The cost of living out here is astronomical. $1000.00 plus for a one bedroom apt.

P.S. I've payed for it a few times too. Nothing wrong with it. Much fun.

[Phat]

I've never been with a transexual, and since I will never pay for sex, probably never will. It's pretty much just a fantasy for me.