Questions from a Male

[Eddave603]

To Trannies/shemales(don't really know what else to call you girls?),

Trying to look for a tgirl or tgirls in Southern California, to get a drink at a bar and see where things go.

But seems like wherever I look, you girls want money or donations for it? Keep in Mind I don't want an escort or need asap pleasure.
Just looking to drink, hangout, and see what happens; but all of you want money??

Why is that?

[SanDiegoPervySage]

This should be good

[Ben in LA]

..........

[hamdasl]

Remember the GD song?
"Lovely to look upon.
Heaven to touch.
Its a real shame
they've got to cost so much."

[Fitzcarraldo]

To Trannies/shemales(don't really know what else to call you girls?),

Trying to look for a tgirl or tgirls in Southern California, to get a drink at a bar and see where things go.

But seems like wherever I look, you girls want money or donations for it? Keep in Mind I don't want an escort or need asap pleasure.
Just looking to drink, hangout, and see what happens; but all of you want money??

Why is that?

“You know what charm is: a way of getting the answer yes without having asked any clear question.”--Albert Camus, The Fall

Someone needs to go to charm school.

[holzz]

To Trannies/shemales(don't really know what else to call you girls?),

Trying to look for a tgirl or tgirls in Southern California, to get a drink at a bar and see where things go.

But seems like wherever I look, you girls want money or donations for it? Keep in Mind I don't want an escort or need asap pleasure.
Just looking to drink, hangout, and see what happens; but all of you want money??

Why is that?

go to trans bars/clubs for that. or trans meetup groups, or go online on OKCupid, Tinder, POF.

if you live in Cali, should be no real problem, should it of all places.

[CoolAwesomeBXDude]

waiting for the girls responses like.....















:shrug:shrug:shrug:shrug:shrug:shrug


where they at tho

[IluvemHung]

They are all about the money, who needs companionship!

[runningdownthatdream]

To Trannies/shemales(don't really know what else to call you girls?),

Trying to look for a tgirl or tgirls in Southern California, to get a drink at a bar and see where things go.

But seems like wherever I look, you girls want money or donations for it? Keep in Mind I don't want an escort or need asap pleasure.
Just looking to drink, hangout, and see what happens; but all of you want money??

Why is that?

"to see where things go" Is that what you call going back to a spot to fuck? Maybe you're still young so you haven't learned yet that ALL OF MODERN LIFE is centred - in one way or another - around money. It's actually better to just negotiate and pay upfront, get what you want, and leave than as you say "get a drink at a bar and see where things go". Deal with the known rather than the unknown.

[Fitzcarraldo]

"to see where things go" Is that what you call going back to a spot to fuck? Maybe you're still young so you haven't learned yet that ALL OF MODERN LIFE is centred - in one way or another - around money. It's actually better to just negotiate and pay upfront, get what you want, and leave than as you say "get a drink at a bar and see where things go". Deal with the known rather than the unknown.

It wasn't my question, but I can see how things could go differently, and not involve an exchange of currency. But the approach must be much more subtle. (And I'm not young.)

[runningdownthatdream]

It wasn't my question, but I can see how things could go differently, and not involve an exchange of currency. But the approach must be much more subtle. (And I'm not young.)

Then you're not really a cynical idealist afterall.......more of a wishful thinker perhaps? Not that wishful thinking doesn't have its uses but for a professed newbie like our OP I think he'll have better luck with a pragmatic approach to getting what he wants.

[Fitzcarraldo]

Then you're not really a cynical idealist afterall.......more of a wishful thinker perhaps? Not that wishful thinking doesn't have its uses but for a professed newbie like our OP I think he'll have better luck with a pragmatic approach to getting what he wants.

Cynical modifies idealist in the construction, so I'm an idealist at heart. The newbie is still clueless. He may get lucky with a pragmatic approach, but he won't find fulfillment.

[runningdownthatdream]

Cynical modifies idealist in the construction, so I'm an idealist at heart. The newbie is still clueless. He may get lucky with a pragmatic approach, but he won't find fulfillment.

Yes agreed.........in my experience one finds what one needs when one isn't searching.

[hamdasl]

Seriously, in my experience (middle east & SE Asia), most transgender women have few opportunities for employment outside the sex industry (Thailand is an exception). Many times, asking "guests" for money is their only way to make ends meet. Its a sad situation.