You just can't fix a poorly dressed woman (GG)

[SXFX]

Yes or no
You just can't fix a poorly dressed woman (GG)

Per my experience women aren't like homes or cars or bikes....IF they show up at your door dressed like lesbian leappercons and odds are no matter how many times you take them shopping, politely point out they are dressed in the shallow end of WallyWorlds best or just mock them....they will not change their "style" regardless of how god awful it is!

And as a 40 yo guy...holy shit it pisses me off! I'm dating a younger lady (29yo) and she shows up at my place looking like shit and expects me to be "excited" I look at her in her white Lycra pants and flannel shirt and I'm like WTF......SO I HAD TO HAVE THE TALK!
"Listen when i was 20 any vagina showed up at my door regardless of how poorly she dressed I would have fucked it! I'm 40 i've had more than 1 partner and less than a thousand......you know how you are only turned on by guys if they are rocking X,YandZ? well that's where i am now in my life...you want me turned on clean your fucking shit up dress better and smile more!"
I can't be the only one who's ever had this conversation with a woman?

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Is this woman unattractive and trashy? Most attractive will take pride in their appearance.

[hamdasl]

Women not interested in their appearance is definitely not the norm.
Even my "earth-mama" 1st wife would make an effort to look nice when we went out.
Life is too short to waste it on sloppy women.

[blackchubby38]

If they're sexy, cute, pretty, hot, etc., I will overlook how poorly they are dressed. Within in reason though. I think it depends on where we are going and what we are doing at time.

[bluesoul]

you're dating a young woman and she shows up on your door dressed like shit. when you first met her and asked to date her, how was she dressed?

the question seems to conflict with your logic. either she once dressed really nice or well enough to attract you to begin dating her, which means you can fix a poorly dressed woman, or she never dressed well to begin with and you asked to date her despite knowing she was a shit dresser (or without seeing her?)

[livepersona]

I'm more attracted to a girl that puts forTH effort in her looks than just natural beauty. Natural beauty is great but there is just something about a women that puts forth the effort.

[SXFX]

you're dating a young woman and she shows up on your door dressed like shit. when you first met her and asked to date her, how was she dressed?

the question seems to conflict with your logic. either she once dressed really nice or well enough to attract you to begin dating her, which means you can fix a poorly dressed woman, or she never dressed well to begin with and you asked to date her despite knowing she was a shit dresser (or without seeing her?)

oh god she was horribly dressed...i think she was even wearing a members only jacket.........but hey when you are in a 3 month drought you look past that....

my argument is that dressing is innate to someones DNA like the color of their hair...either they are going to be well dressed or they are going to be shit dressed.
I've dated women who came from shit dressed families and were very well put together and knew what a properly fitted shirt should look and feel like...
I've also dated women who came from well dressed families who looked like they were aspiring wall mart models.....that is to say WTF is that shit you are wearing.

Now here is the gig....i'm 40 and well this shit use to slide when i was 20-30...horny and dumb...but now..HOLY shit...it is such a massive turnoff....because all i see it is work....work to get that woman to dress properly for her age for her status and for her body.....

Like i said...i think women aren't like homes or cars or bikes....at some point we men just have to accept that a shit dressed woman will all ways be a shit dressed women!

[Trapt53]

oh god she was horribly dressed...i think she was even wearing a members only jacket.........but hey when you are in a 3 month drought you look past that....

my argument is that dressing is innate to someones DNA like the color of their hair...either they are going to be well dressed or they are going to be shit dressed.
I've dated women who came from shit dressed families and were very well put together and knew what a properly fitted shirt should look and feel like...
I've also dated women who came from well dressed families who looked like they were aspiring wall mart models.....that is to say WTF is that shit you are wearing.

Now here is the gig....i'm 40 and well this shit use to slide when i was 20-30...horny and dumb...but now..HOLY shit...it is such a massive turnoff....because all i see it is work....work to get that woman to dress properly for her age for her status and for her body.....

Like i said...i think women aren't like homes or cars or bikes....at some point we men just have to accept that a shit dressed woman will all ways be a shit dressed women!

It only took 3 months of no sex for you to jump on the first warm body willing to spread her legs. Obviously, your standards aren't that high or that firm. If they were, you wouldn't have approached her in the first place. You might want to get over yourself. 3 more months and you'll be sniffing around her again looking to get to your pecker wet.

I wonder what "standards" she's overlooking to sleep with you. If you were that great a catch, I'm thinking one of these well dressed women you seek would have locked you down already.

This is also a strange place to decide to make this particular complaint, unless the woman you're talking about is trans.

[trish]

If my Daddy can't spring for a stylist, a cosmetologist, my own personal maid and keep me in fashionable rags, he can hit the fuckin' road.

[SXFX]

This is also a strange place to decide to make this particular complaint, unless the woman you're talking about is trans.
funny thing...the last trans girl i dated....before the 3 month dry spell....she was an amazing dresser....really well put together.
and honestly the same could be said about the other two trans women before..........