What do you prefer outcalls or incalls?

[guitarguy]

I wonder how most of you feel about this. While for my own personal discretion I like outcalls such as their place or at least a hotel in some ways I like them coming to me because at least in my own place I feel like I am in better control of the environment and circumstances though I realize no guarantees there. Way too often I am promised they are alone and then while we are together someone walks into the apartment or comes out of a room. That just freaks me out. Also way too often "their place" is in some hellhole of an area. I don;t understand how some of these girls can make so much money and live in such seedy areas and dumps of apartments.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

I wonder how most of you feel about this. While for my own personal discretion I like outcalls such as their place or at least a hotel in some ways I like them coming to me because at least in my own place I feel like I am in better control of the environment and circumstances though I realize no guarantees there. Way too often I am promised they are alone and then while we are together someone walks into the apartment or comes out of a room. That just freaks me out. Also way too often "their place" is in some hellhole of an area. I don;t understand how some of these girls can make so much money and live in such seedy areas and dumps of apartments.
I'm guessing a lot of their money goes towards their transition costs and for some girls, drugs.

That's gotta be awkward for someone to just walking in the room while she's doing her thing.

[holzz]

depends. they may in some cases have pimps, or have whatever issues. they could be mentally ill, and not want to move, who knows?

but then don't just go to places in dumps. even somebody who lives/works in a nice area could be on drugs, there's no way to tell. i prefer incalls to be honest, since who is to say an unscrupulous escort won't steal something from your house or flat? and if they have peope there, it's often for their own safety. which makes sense, since when taking hormones, their masculine strength diminishes (they get the upper body strength of born women) so that's nothing i would begrudge them for. provided their friend, bf, husband, is in another room watching TV or on his computer, i don't care, i just enjoy the fucking.

[guitarguy]

depends. they may in some cases have pimps, or have whatever issues. they could be mentally ill, and not want to move, who knows?

but then don't just go to places in dumps. even somebody who lives/works in a nice area could be on drugs, there's no way to tell. i prefer incalls to be honest, since who is to say an unscrupulous escort won't steal something from your house or flat? and if they have peope there, it's often for their own safety. which makes sense, since when taking hormones, their masculine strength diminishes (they get the upper body strength of born women) so that's nothing i would begrudge them for. provided their friend, bf, husband, is in another room watching TV or on his computer, i don't care, i just enjoy the fucking.


That all is definitely true but who is to say you won't get robbed in their place? Once your clothes are off in their place you are very vulnerable.

[bigkid69]

Incalls are you going to them, outcalls are them going to you.

And as has been stated so many times, you get what you pay for, do research, if you don't want to get freaked out going to some "hell hole" spend a little more. In the long run it is worth it.